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coz i m jobless these days :(
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..................so if u dont have a job, and (god forbid) HE didnt had a job ..then it should be NO gifts both ways.. CORRECT?
also, if u have a job, its gifts BOTH WAYs.. r i t e?
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bachon kay pampers change kar ke ![]()
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HEAR ye! HEAR ye!
best valentines of them all people .. ![]()
and those of u who dont get it .. THATS A TRUE valentine .. no marketing gimmick, no dikhawa, gifts, monitory stuff
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:aq:
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lol- no he always gimme somthing even if he is jobless, its only me who’s mean to him all the time ![]()
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awww ![]()
yaww sadaf aunttyyyyyy rock on
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Just him ![]()
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can you baby sit my kids for the valentines day?
qasam se kabhi valentines day manaya hi nahin ![]()
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thats why i’m saying u have the BEST valentines of all .. lil tiny lives are associated with u that u take care of, not just on vday, but EVERY DAY!
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:hinna:
well, its not that I am not a proud mom.. I am
But the thing is yaar kabhi to apnay ko time millay na ![]()
agar kabhi bacha party kisi ke hawalay kar ke challay bhi jao to fiker hi rehti hai ke kar kiya rahay hain ![]()
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circle of life to me sadaf baji was, everything nice before wedding, just the guy and the girl, 100% of love and time's chunk was devoted.. purely for each other..
then as another life added and the plate got bigger, girl's BIGGER TIME chunk and love divided, went towards the kid.. she still balances, or tries to balance,
man on the other side, felt that he's missing that chunk, woman on the other side, felt the same, and tried to make up for it ..
THAT was my understanding always .. and thats life.. every time a life gets added WITH YOUR LIFE, it demands more love, time and warmness than the old-er times
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wow.. totally true..
I agree.
and now we live for those bundles of joy.. ![]()
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if only ..... will give me a rose or nething
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exactly..
see its ok to miss the initial 'slope' of the relationship.. cuz now that graph-curve is like a flat line.. it has reached its peak, and now its gonna be sustained to a flat-line ..
pehlay just hubby thay, abb bachay sath main hain, pehlay ghoom letay thay, privacy+time hota tha, abb babysitter bhi agar kaheen say milay to dil laga rahay ga .. and thats fine.. cuz that 100% chunk is now divided into parts..
only problem in this case is, men, sometimes dont see it .. and feel that wife doesnt love them any more ever since the kids came in the scene..
its usually the other way around.. its the time-demanding factor..
tell u what.. find ANOTHER couple in ur situation, make a deal to look after the kids one time, and second time switch, and u see the kids .. (their kids) this way .. its fair
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confused> i think dats a good idea ur giving to all those happil-married couples wid kids....dat wuld work out good...
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good idea confused... :)
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haan yar, i try .. keeping balance in life..
i just hope once i reach that situations, all learnings, formulae, and techniques work ..
either that or i will be in bigger poopies than of the kids ![]()