Re: ur instant reaction
Depends on the person. Other than family e.g. for some ‘nice and caring friends’ … if they do something wrong which I don’t be expecting and can never imagine… then they just crash their image to me, they will not exist anymore to me, … I usually go away from them and will never care and talk to them in the life. I even don’t give a second chance to them to clear themselves… cuz in that case I know I will forgive them…which I will not want to do. …I only get mad on ‘so called friends’ or any person who is dearer to me, other I do not care…:-)