I think they were just showing how things finally were looking up for her...or to how she dreamed marital life would be. After her marriage, she felt no different and it made her more bitter. Knowing her husband took the initiative finally for her, and he was excited and all that...bitter people let off bitterness. Give them a molecule of happiness and they will change...i think it was depicted quite well.
Do you really think people can change who they are fundamentally? yes a person can cease to engage in a particular behavioral pattern but does that change who they are as humans? rukhsar is fundamentally a person who lets her person happiness dictate her behavior towards others. She's currently happy with her situation hence her behavior with kiran has 'changed'. But if she becomes dissatisfied with her personal life, she will resort to her old habits. The real test to see if a person can really change is if their personal circumstances remains the same and they don't feel the need to exhibit their standard behavior (which in rukhsar's case is being a nasty b$tch).
Finally it ended. It was a good drama kept me hooked. Started off typically and a bit unrealistically i.e. sikander falling for kiran despite the fact that she was not rich nor too beautiful nor he himself had any good views about people who were poor. But anyhow i am glad that they did not drag the drama by showing overly romantic scenes btw kiran and sikander before they got married. Kiran was not at fault from any angle and was shown as a strong woman. In our society its ok if husband says one gaali or taana to his wife. And since they are not stopped or told off hence they make it there habit which even leads to physical abuse. I am glad she was shown as someone who was not ready to sacrifice her honour or dignity because of marriage or love. And whats up with mothers/fathers being slave to what their kids want i.e. Rukhsaar and sikander. Both were badtameez and adamant and their parents would just listen to whatever they are uttering. And in the end they will end up blaming their parents that example since i always saw u hitting my mother thats why i did it too..like they don't have a brain at all to think what is right or wrong. Or Also why parents are always praying and getting worried for their daughters only why not their son. 'Beti ka ghar bas jaye, beti khush rahe apne ghar mein' why cant they be the same for their son also. Are they not entitled to have a happy married life. Why do they exclude them just cause if there are any problems then their son will get married easily whereas daughter will be a matter of pride and dignity. Never seen a mother or father saying 'humare bete ka ghar basa rahe aur woh khush rahe'. Hope this changes. And adnan had no right to entirely blame his sister for his problems. He should have known the difference between right and wrong. All actors and actresses portrayed their character very well. Uroosa was excellent as rukhsaar. They should have shown properly what exactly was going to happen between aarzoo and sikander or even something like aarzoo saying 'need time to think or we'll see'. Also they should shown more scenes of sikander's verbal and physical abuse so that the dialogues of kiran about him hitting her and verbally abusing her would have looked justified. Overall a good drama.
koi faraq nahin pada. As I already believed that every relationship (be it friendship or love) got three stages : respect, trust and sharing. Umera didn’t add anything to my knowledge :cobra:
best drama of 2013. Umera is the best writer.
Best scences are
1 Meeting between Kiran and Arzoo
2 last scene between Adnan and Rukhsar
3 Slap
4 Last scene between kiran and adnan.
