PCG, all us menfolk need at the end of the day is food and sex, don't talk about commitment, don't whine, don't cuddle, we hate cuddling. And try not to talk too much, get with the times, buy an xbox, start playing, if you can kick his rear in Tekken, he will keep coming back for more. Buy a 55" LED TV with a complete 5.1 surround sound setup, xbox or ps3, a fridge loaded with redbull, the best recliner you can afford, a steady flow of sammiches, and there you have created a little man heaven, he will never leave.
PCG, all us menfolk need at the end of the day is food and sex, don't talk about commitment, don't whine, don't cuddle, we hate cuddling. And try not to talk too much, get with the times, buy an xbox, start playing, if you can kick his rear in Tekken, he will keep coming back for more. Buy a 55" LED TV with a complete 5.1 surround sound setup, xbox or ps3, a fridge loaded with redbull, the best recliner you can afford, a steady flow of sammiches, and there you have created a little man heaven, he will never leave.
Smoking
Drinking
Drug use
Arrogance
Too judgemental
Too materialistic
Whining too much
Bossy
Caring too much about what others think
Disrespectful to others, particularly my family
Too much contact with guys (wouldn't keep track/bother unless looking at the girl as a marriage prospect).
That's about all I can think of for now. General stuff. Doesn't necessarily apply to you.
PCG, all us menfolk need at the end of the day is food and sex, don't talk about commitment, don't whine, don't cuddle, we hate cuddling. And try not to talk too much, get with the times, buy an xbox, start playing, if you can kick his rear in Tekken, he will keep coming back for more. Buy a 55" LED TV with a complete 5.1 surround sound setup, xbox or ps3, a fridge loaded with redbull, the best recliner you can afford, a steady flow of sammiches, and there you have created a little man heaven, he will never leave.
Uhhhhhhhh what you have just described is a slob. Next.
some of the north american guys i know resist marry from na and go back to pak to marry because ... i dont know what the na girls have done, i can only guess
**It's no worse than what many of those na/uk guys have also done themselves.. **and of those who have dated it's only the insecure (and hypocritical) little mummy's boys who need to run back to Pakistan to get a wife..
**It's no worse than what many of those na/uk guys have also done themselves.. **and of those who have dated it's only the insecure (and hypocritical) little mummy's boys who need to run back to Pakistan to get a wife..
everybody acts as if girls from pakistan are all pak saaf and use them as a safety net for screwed up marriages abroad. I can tell you that girls from pakistan are far from clean themselves and are just like girls anywhere else. You're gonna get all sorts of personalities in any one country. Now what you have is that if a guy wants to marry a chick from pakistan because he genuinely clicks with her and gets on with her, people start suspecting stuff and pointing fingers because its against the norm (well for those living abroad anyway)
i agree to most of your but one thing us guys should need to note and remember
some characteristics girls should not be basis of rejection simply because there may nothing be too bad
for example if a girl is emotional to a certain extent its fine i mean girls in general cant help it obviously she must not a psycho
about caring too much about what others think is another one, some girls might be conscious about their rep, imo it should be acceptable again to a certain extent
Here's a personal list of turn-offs:
Smoking
Drinking
Drug use
Arrogance
Too judgemental
Too materialistic
Whining too much
Bossy
Caring too much about what others think
Disrespectful to others, particularly my family
Too much contact with guys (wouldn't keep track/bother unless looking at the girl as a marriage prospect).
That's about all I can think of for now. General stuff. Doesn't necessarily apply to you.
Errr no, those of us who live outside Pakistan actually see this for ourselves.. on a daily basis..
Anyone with half a brain would think to themselves 'how come it's only desi girls abroad who get accused of this? why not the guys as well? do these 'bad' girls only date white men or each other lol.. where exactly are the Pak guys in this equation?' (esp when they often have a lot more freedom to get up to things anyway)..
but the ratio of better girls to total # of girls in pakistan is much much higher than in anywhere else in the world merely because the pool is the biggest and is the source of supply so to speak
everybody acts as if girls from pakistan are all pak saaf and use them as a safety net for screwed up marriages abroad. I can tell you that girls from pakistan are far from clean themselves and are just like girls anywhere else. You're gonna get all sorts of personalities in any one country. Now what you have is that if a guy wants to marry a chick from pakistan because he genuinely clicks with her and gets on with her, people start suspecting stuff and pointing fingers because its against the norm (well for those living abroad anyway)
^that may be true. But that doesnt change desi peoples (the ones who are living abroad) perception of marrying a girl from pakistan. A guy could genuinely click with a girl from pakistan and desis abroad will start suspecting stuff or simply put it down to the fact that he is unable to get a girl from their own country.
^that may be true. But that doesnt change desi peoples (the ones who are living abroad) perception of marrying a girl from pakistan. A guy could genuinely click with a girl from pakistan and desis abroad will start suspecting stuff or simply put it down to the fact that he is unable to get a girl from their own country.
I would only think that if he was specifically going on some sort of 'find a bride' trip and it was all very mechanical and arranged.. People do often fall for each other on holidays and so on.. and obviously that goes for non-desis as well..
i know equal number of guys abroad who chose to marry there and who chose to marry in pak while living aboard
i know guys who are completely independent successful living abroad some chose to marry there some chose to marry from pak
so when you say those are mummy boys and insecure - i completely disagree
Errr no, those of us who live outside Pakistan actually see this for ourselves.. on a daily basis..
Anyone with half a brain would think to themselves 'how come it's only desi girls abroad who get accused of this? why not the guys as well? do these 'bad' girls only date white men or each other lol.. where exactly are the Pak guys in this equation?' (esp when they often have a lot more freedom to get up to things anyway)..
I would only think that if he was specifically going on some sort of 'find a bride' trip and it was all very mechanical and arranged.. People do often fall for each other on holidays and so on.. and obviously that goes for non-desis as well..
very true. Im just glad to see that this arranged marriage phenomenon is dying. Give it another generation or two and itll be gone completely. And i cant wait
