Trust issues

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@Little Princess

So does anyone have trust issues?
Do you trust easily?
Were you hurt ever because you trusted?How did you react when you came to know that your trust was broken?Did you talk to that person like before?

I Didn’t trust ppl easily with major stuff .Then a few months ago I trusted and I found that everything I told had been leaked out .
I had thought earlier that in case my trust would be broken It would definitely effect me a lot but the only thing I told myself when it did happen was* “your mistake…why did you trust..ye tou hona he tha phir”* and I still find myself being normal around the person who broke my trust just a lil guarded with what I say.

Why is that? could it be because in my sub conscious I expected it to happen?

My guesses:

1. You are psychologically very healthy and can live with a negative incident without letting it affect the rest of your life.

2. However, if you are blaming yourself and don’t really think the other person did you wrong (also, was it explicit that they are supposed to keep the info to themselves?), than that is not right. Forgiving is noble. Pretending to forgive is a sin against yourself.

I think it would be easy to make that decision if you look at your life and the incidents that happened recently. See if you feel like you handled them well i.e. psychologically healthily or if you ignored the problem/pretended to be ok.

P.S. I don’t know if you’re blaming yourself or taking responsibility for your actions. Obviously taking responsibility is the best thing you can do, WITHOUT any self-blame.