Re: Today my future in laws too me to see the valima site, i dont like it is it ok to
NJMasti, it is a smallish wedding hall that has a flight of stairs leading up to it. Most of our elderly relatives can't climb stairs at all and would keep sitting donstairs on chairs or in their cars. It is not even big enough for the amount of guests they are inviting so it would be jam packed in no time. I agree with you that the bride doesn't have a say in her Valima and bari stuff but she does have a bad feeling about it.
I would like to know what would someone do if caught in a similar situation.