Re: To the married lot out here…
My problem is that this IS the reality for some women in the sub-continent where multiple marriages are legally acceptable (we’re less likely to see this outside the sub-continent). In my extended family I know of two guys (they live in Pakistan) they have second wives - and they married the second time because it was *pasand ki shaadi. *If a man falls in love, he can legitimize his second relationship. If a woman falls in love, she’s called characterless - there is a double-standard that I find contemptible.