Re: Time limited love
I got rejected :(
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fitte munh!! 
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ok, so here is what happened. first thing, i had wrong info that she has left. she was still there and i managed to find her but saw her for a very short time and she disappeared without me getting a chance to talk to her while I was stuck with a mutual friend.
So i decided to send her an email because by this time i was desperate and couldn't wait for weeks to see her again and try to talk to her. I wrote a lot of stuff in the email, whatever was going on in my mind. she usually replies to emails very quickly but this one took her hours which means she thought a lot about it. she said a few things in email which meant she was a bit apologetic and sympathetic with me and then said few things which meant f off :(
I was not expecting an acceptance but rather looking for a way to ease my pain as it was becoming too much for me to bear. But my mind still cannot accept the fact that she is the one who started this fire in me and i am the one to suffer becoz of it. It was her attention to me that started all this in me.
Her response has helped me cool down a lot and replaced all my anxiety with sadness which means at-least i can sleep now. But her memories refuse to go away, the image of her smiling face that she used to make while talking to me, the sound of her voice when she called my name keeps resounding in my head forever. When i wake up, she is still the first thing that comes to my mind.
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:(
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But her memories refuse to go away, the image of her smiling face that she used to make while talking to me, the sound of her voice when she called my name keeps resounding in my head forever. When i wake up, she is still the first thing that comes to my mind.
get a hobby.
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There will b a time when u will think about this and laugh ..forgetting somthng is not hard , hard is to make a decision ..just make ur decision thats it.
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Send her a card
I LOVE YOU, WILL YOU MARRY ME? **
** yee offer mehdood muddat k leyee hai. some conditions apply. offer can not be combined with any other offer. Offer voided where in conflict with local laws (aka ammi/aabba)
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Oh... feeling sorry for you buddy!
lets plan the change now, find another chick :D and hey, i kinda dislike guys who make sad smileys, just chill out and move on.
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ok, so here is what happened. first thing, i had wrong info that she has left. she was still there and i managed to find her but saw her for a very short time and she disappeared without me getting a chance to talk to her while I was stuck with a mutual friend.
So i decided to send her an email because by this time i was desperate and couldn't wait for weeks to see her again and try to talk to her. I wrote a lot of stuff in the email, whatever was going on in my mind. she usually replies to emails very quickly but this one took her hours which means she thought a lot about it. she said a few things in email which meant she was a bit apologetic and sympathetic with me and then said few things which meant f off :(
I was not expecting an acceptance but rather looking for a way to ease my pain as it was becoming too much for me to bear. But my mind still cannot accept the fact that she is the one who started this fire in me and i am the one to suffer becoz of it. It was her attention to me that started all this in me.
Her response has helped me cool down a lot and replaced all my anxiety with sadness which means at-least i can sleep now. But her memories refuse to go away, the image of her smiling face that she used to make while talking to me, the sound of her voice when she called my name keeps resounding in my head forever. When i wake up, she is still the first thing that comes to my mind.
send her card, with heart sign on it. and write what d6c said. in post 27. i mean bold text.
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send her card, with heart sign on it. and write what d6c said. in post 27. i mean bold text.
That guy is joking.
I cannot do that becoz she has very frankly indicated that she would prefer no further communication from me. She said she wished we could continue to be friends but now that I have such feelings for her it will be inappropriate to communicate with each other. With that she has blocked all means of communication between us. Even if I get to see her again I don't think she will come face to face with me and allow me to talk.
If I still send her any email I will appear like a problematic person to her.
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That guy is joking.
I cannot do that becoz she has very frankly indicated that she would prefer no further communication from me. She said she wished we could continue to be friends but now that I have such feelings for her it will be inappropriate to communicate with each other. With that she has blocked all means of communication between us. Even if I get to see her again I don't think she will come face to face with me and allow me to talk.
If I still send her any email I will appear like a problematic person to her.
Is there any thing else that you want her to know?..or somethng that uou want her to hear?
If yes then tell her and dont ever look back
Dnt lose ur self respect .. more u bend ur self the more u making it hard for your self.
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Well sad for ya buddy. But at least now ya know she is not interested. Ya'll find someone who loves ya like..you loved that girl..
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Is there any thing else that you want her to know?..or somethng that uou want her to hear?
If yes then tell her and dont ever look back
Dnt lose ur self respect .. more u bend ur self the more u making it hard for your self.
I have told her pretty much everything.
Self respect is something that you don't even think of in these situations. I have put a lot more than my self respect at stake when I expressed myself, she could have turned my life upside down if she wanted to.
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I have told her pretty much everything.
Self respect is something that you don't even think of in these situations. I have put a lot more than my self respect at stake when I expressed myself, she could have turned my life upside down if she wanted to.
The way i see it, she dint knew the value of true love, or she knew it but still dint care about it. Your really nice person, By God will you will get more than you deserve. Now its time for you to be true to yourself, not to fall in grief for someone who do'nt love you, lift yourself up to more heights so one day someone come to you rather you go for someone. May God fill your life with true happiness.
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The way i see it, she dint knew the value of true love, or she knew it but still dint care about it. Your really nice person, By God will you will get more than you deserve. Now its time for you to be true to yourself, not to fall in grief for someone who do'nt love you, lift yourself up to more heights so one day someone come to you rather you go for someone. May God fill your life with true happiness.
I think the same about her attitude towards love. She is the one who showed a little bit of interest in me in the beginning that started this fire in me. How can she call me a friend and at the same time leave me alone to this suffocating condition? Even if she is not interested, she could have done something more than just cut me off forever from her life. Such a nice natured and caring woman can be so heartless, I could've never imagined that.
My heart still has that sinking feeling when I think I won't be able to see her again, or even if I do see her she will probably ignore me which will make me feel worse.