Re: Till Email Do Us Part
i do/have shared my password before. there's nothing wrong with it, as long as the intentions are clear (they're not out there to get you, go through your stuff unncecessarily, be nosey, etc)
I’m sure u make up for it in the parties 
oh noooo..sharing emails/passwords is a bad ideaa....itz very important that both the partners should have their own sets of frnds where they can speak their hearts out..o/w all the time both same persons everywhere,wont it b toooooooooooooo boring :(...
Re: Till Email Do Us Part
we know each others' passwords. We don't really bother reading each others' emails, nothing scandalous going on, but once in a while she'll need some info or I'll need info and one of us will just say "it's in my email, go get it". It's not a big deal. There's nothing to hide.
The scandalous stuff is in accounts that she doesn't even know exist :) that's where I'm recruiting begum #2. MWAHHHAHAHAHAHA!!
oh noooo..sharing emails/passwords is a bad ideaa....itz very important that both the partners should have their own sets of frnds where they can speak their hearts out..o/w all the time both same persons everywhere,wont it b toooooooooooooo boring :(...
^hallmark of a single person/newlywed/or someone in a bad marriage. There are NO secrets in a trusting relationship.
So there IS another account where “Scandalous” emails are exchanged without knowledge of ur significant other 
Do U think she might ALSO have a similar scandalous account ?
P.S Any success with the recruitment aahmed ?
Re: Till Email Do Us Part
We dont share the passwords. To us its not the matter of "oh there is nothing to hide so lets share the password" but its the matter of personal space. She sometimes have conversations with her friends (even with her sis mom whoever) that she does now want to share, and I totally respect that. Same is the case other way round.
Many times it has happened that If I am busy and my account is logged in, I ask her to send a quick line to whoever...she make that request too many times so not that we have anything to hide from each other.
^hallmark of a single person/newlywed/or someone in a bad marriage. There are NO secrets in a trusting relationship.
Its not about having or not having secrets. We are mashallah happily married for 8 years now and we dont share the passwords. Of course there is no secret b/w husband and wife but there are things related to 3rd person which sometimes 3rd person has asked to be secret.......
we dont... he is not that type of person who would go through my emails or purse or whatever....he respects my privacy
^hallmark of a single person/newlywed/or someone in a bad marriage. There are NO secrets in a trusting relationship.
.. so if u TRUST your partner then why u even wanna know her password?
That’s a healthy relationship. You don’t want to get totally into each other’s space. That’s respectful.
My hubby has an account he always keep it open. He doesn’t care. Once I read what the heck he was getting so much stuff on - and found out it’s his account saved for “jokes” spam mail ====> I really didn’t think it was funny 
We both share each other passwords. Since hubby doesn't have his account access from office so I have to check his email and reply on his behalf too sometimes.:D
We both share each other passwords. Since hubby doesn't have his account access from office so I have to check his email and reply on his behalf too sometimes.:D
That's called "business" account :D where private mails do not enter :D
we dont... he is not that type of person who would go through my emails or purse or whatever....he respects my privacy
.. so if u TRUST your partner then why u even wanna know her password?
Like I said, it wasn't that I wanted her password, I probably wanted some info from her that was in her email and she just GAVE me her password and asked me to get it out of her email or she wanted me to update her facebook so she TOLD me her password, I don't care or want to know, but when you've been married for over a decade, you tend to eventually share that information for one reason or another.
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Yes I will, I did and I found the results.. =)
Though I wasnt keen to know hers.
Its not about having or not having secrets. We are mashallah happily married for 8 years now and we dont share the passwords. Of course there is no secret b/w husband and wife but there are things related to 3rd person which sometimes 3rd person has asked to be secret.......
** i totally agreee..itz the matter of personal space...apart from being husband and wife,they both are individuals in the first place,,and every individual needs some space to relax on their own :)...and it must not only be understood but has to be respected too..thatz a more mature attitude :)**
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Wow. Ya’ll are too clingy.
I guess if my husband asked for it, I’d give it to him. But probably would not give him access to my online bank account or anything involving social security numbers. Knowing my luck, I’ll probably end up with a desi sleeze bucket who would steal all my money and then accuse me of trash.
You girls gotta protect yourselves. And then you girls, when slapped in the face by retarded men, will go crying that they abused you, stole your money, stole your jehaz, stole your mehar and all that jazz. Just make sure to keep your finances secure and so that he can’t touch them. Apart from that - an email password? Meh. A guy who is gonna ask me to give it to him, unless it’s for casual reasons like aahmed describes, is retarded.
My parents, for example, have had to go fishing in emails for me when I’ve been at a remote site, and so they may know my password. I doubt they’ve memorized it. Same with the sister - I was at the mall and waiting for word on something so I had to have her go fish something for me into an account and I gave her my password. I doubt she even remembers it.
That’s very different than starting off a marriage saying, hey lets exchange passwords. Especially with south asian marriages - a lot of times, you don’t really even know the person well enough when you marry them. So why would you fork over such personal information so soon??
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wow...
PCG where do you find all those ppl??
Some chicks had my password, nothing ever happened.
I have share my bank-card pin too. And nothing ever happened.
PCG you have a very negative image of marriage. Most of the time in marriage passcodes for bank accounts, email etc get exchanged because of one thing or another and not for the purpose of control or snooping around.
Believe me there are plenty of good, educated desi people out there who are far from the sociopaths that you frequently describe.
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Raspberries?
wow... PCG where do you find all those ppl?? Some chicks had my password, nothing ever happened. I have share my bank-card pin too. And nothing ever happened.
** yess itz not only about marriage....some people do share each others passwords because they want themselves that their partner knows everything about them...it soundss sweet too :D**