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Getting robbed on gun point. Happened twice in life.
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loving someone in my teen years, someone who never existed
Agree with that but life is unexpected sometimes:)
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Spending time on an online discussion forum~
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be admitted into hospital 2ce in one year
marry a canadian
grow up on an internet forum (yeahyeah)
become a mod.
learn to cook
learn to bake a cake
If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans.
My life was going well according to plan. Then from age 25, everything was re-written for me. Some great some not so.
But I have learnt to cope by taking 1 day at a time…finding my way out of bad times, or accepting them…they dont last forever. Similarly, I enjoy good times thoroughly…they dont last forever either.
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Let a man make a fool of me.
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Things i thought would never happen:
Love someone, (twice!) 
Be a chachaa 4th time now 
Be declared worst and best employee of the company!
Suffer defeat to someone from my own side!
Fall of a motorbike!
this one thing … now it has happened its hard to deal with
but some positives
i would get married to hubby ( always liekd him bt it seemed impossible)
get a good job
have my own place
be a good muslim ( continue to become better inshallah)
the above however cloudes over everything , and its not a good one 
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Falling in love
Didn’t think it would ever happen for me.
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Very interesting thread.
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marrying just before the 19th birthday…
actually i did think of that when i was 14.
Never thought I would Go thru so much weird drama at such a young age.
Never thought that bcus of that drama, I could risk loosing my family.
Never thougt I could be so naive as to fall for my parents promises and say yes to a relationship that I knew would never be right for me.
Never thought I would have to worry every waking moment of my life that I might do or say something that would mean I will loose love and respect of my family.
Never thought I would have the job that im in today, And still have to worry about finding anohter job cus this is only fixed term.
Never thougt that a simple thing as Darood Shareef would help me out of so many difficulties.
Still I say Shuker Allhumdullilah for everything that I have today, and for anything that I may not have tmrw I only have myself to blame.
didnt think i’d fall in love either, not before marriage
but i did fall in love, literally fall and make a fool outta myself:hinna:
why does love have to be like this:crying:
masha’Allah
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Be a houswife, washing tons of dishes and laundary every freaking day.
(not that I didn’t want kids, but didn’t know that kids come with a big bag of used diry cloths and are like those lil bird kids, allways their mouth open for any worms their mom’s and dad’s bring.)
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^lol Saadia 
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Getting hurt by someone you loved…
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TLK being nice to me 
Taking my religion seriously
It’s funny because as those people who know me by my older username will tell u I was a complete hedonist in my early and mid-teens I was the least likely person to take religion seriously…
I sort of always believed because my mum is very spiritual but I always looked down on Molvi type families, they made me feel claustraphobic, dum ghut-ta tha mera… Then 9/11 and 7/7 happened, my religion which wasn’t a big part of my identity till then was rubbed in my face everywhere, people judged it and me, I felt my identity was being attacked and I’m a proud person and it would infuriate and upset me…
…So I started reading up on Islam,and it gave me peace, comfort, secuirty and belonging in this big, mean and hostile world..
Now I’m quite religious, not 100% practicing (no bearded etc.) but it’s the only thing which gives me a true sense of identity, comfort, solace and belonging anymore…
Getting married.
Alhhamdu-Lillaah it’s the best thing I’ve ever done.
I just couldn’t see myself married for a certain phase in my life but I’ve done it and I’m glad I did… I can have the gloomiest day and all I have to think about is my beloved wife to cheer me up and get me through it, she’s my ray of sunshine in this mean, hostile world..