There's something about Pakistani men [ + ]

Tell that to Pakinovas trying to toot their own horns over here. This thread wreaks of lameness.

Article based on a cricketer who may or may not have a first wife who may or may not have duped him into marriage...true playa fo' sho

Well, can't speak of your experience bhai sahab. Do you think someone will really fall for what you asked? Sometimes hints are enough. ;)

Off course there are many Pakistani men who may not be liked by women of different cultures, but the group of Pakistani men who do have ability to mingle with other women get very good responses and are really liked.

Like I said, for some reason Pakistani men and some women from some countries do not get along well.

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the arti-kle supports that Indian women are hotter than Paki women.. what girls have to say about it?

See Diwana, let me break it down for you: Unlike most people here who care about their "online" or GS reps, I simply do not give a damn about what nameless faceless strangers feel about me.

So I am going to speak my mind when I say that Pakistani guys need to stop thinking so highly of themselves, because that fantasy goes poof when they look in the mirror. Pakistani men do NOT have favorable reps ok? For better or worse, when I say Italian dudes, Persian men, or Black guys..you will have a favorable or unfavorable reaction. Pakistani men do not fit into this equation globally.

In fact, many Pakistani men get mistaken for Indians - that's how much they matter. Ciao :)

Like I said, I can't speak for your experiences. I will give you for few and for those who in areas where there has not been exposure of South East Asian men in general, but not all Pakistani men are mistaken for Indian men. (I agree with you using word globally).

Most Pakistani men have many obvious differences in looks, mannerisms/actions, behavior and reactions. Even their accent is different than Indian counterpart. Same goes for most Pakistani women. They look different than Indian women in same regard. Take care. :)

Of course you can’t say that every Pakistani guy will fit one generalization or another, but you must admit that the article that was quoted was pretty shoddy as well. “Rugged good looks” :hehe:

I might seem like I am some type of a Pakistani man hater when the reality is that our collective reputation is not exactly stellar, even when you think of the celebs.

I’m curious about these obvious differences in looks, mannerisms, behaviors between Indian and Pakistani men? Or women? If you dare to broach that subject :smiley:

Personally I don’t see that much of a difference.

When people/women get to know the Pakistani men, they do like them. From distance still there are differences.

Since you asked, let me try to write down: Must tell you these are not universal or globally applied.

1- Height. Pakistani are taller in general.

2- Skin tone and color- Pakistani are more fair skinned,Pinkish lips/cheeks with sharp features. Comes from northern hemisphere. Indian skin tone is relatively dull/sullen. (Now, people from Punjab, Pakhtoonkhwa are mush more fair skinned, you may even find blond, blue eyed, very fair skinned people from Northern Pakistan. Some sikhs who shave and are from Indian Punjab do look like Pakistani.

3- Dressing: Pakistani are more trendy and Indian are more plain clothed or very different color choices. Pakistani spend more money and time on dressing or trendy items. Anyone can spot Indian women dressing from distance.

4- Gait/hand gesture. Indian do walk differently. Indian stay more still, while Pakistani use hand gesture more.

5- Facial expressions: Indian do “head bobbing” when engaged in talking with someone.

6- Emotional reactions like more flamboyant, revealing and full of expression are Pakistani men and more deep and unrevealing are Indian men.

7- Accent: If from US, Indian still speak more in British accent (Indian FOB’s/FOP’s). If US born then there may not be appreciable difference. Indian try to speak more proper English with less slang words but Pakistani do.

8- Hair style: Indian have straight cut hair or at times more careless about facial/nasal hair. Pakistani men try to groom themselves better.

9- Content: Indian use words carefully in their conversation more than Pakistani who are carefree and less political/diplomatic.

I am surprised you cannot tell difference. That’s okay though. :slight_smile:

Now you mentioned about celebs: The selection of celebs in Pakistan is not organized and based on other criteria than qualities. No real schools. Religious reasons also hold people of good looks to go in to show-biz. It’s not like beauty is not there in Pakistan. Pakistani women do not go out in to world for beauty competition commonly either.

True. There was a guy in my class who was Pakistani with blue eyes. Although, his skin color is what gave him away the most. And it's true about the language style too. Pakistanis are more carefree, yet very emotional and deep, which is a plus for us ladies!

There’s something about Pakistani men

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There’s something about Paki men - The Times of India

There’s something about Paki men

There is something about Indian women and Pakistani men. With Indian tennis sensation Sania Mirza professing her love for Paki player Shoaib Malik, we try to figure out the real story…

Actor Reena Roy married cricketer Mohsin Khan; Zeenat Aman dated Imran Khan; Sushmita Sen, our Bollywood hottie, is attracted to Wasim Akram. Amidst all the controversies, media is rife with speculation about Sania Mirza, India’s tennis sensation, tying the knot with Pakistani cricketer Shoaib Malik. Well, one thing is common here – all these Indian women are terribly, terribly attracted to Pakistani men.

Many feel it’s the charm of men from Pakistan – the forbidden land. Psychologist Madhumati Singh explains, “We have always heard stories of flashy, handsome Italian men being much in demand, similarly there is a charm attached to these rugged Pakistani men. They are flamboyant, suave, know the language of love, Urdu very well and use it in even better and are often seen being chivalrous around women.” She goes on to add, “They are also closest to Indian men in temperament and looks which is why these women feel confident about their choice.”

If we see all the popular alliances, most of them have been with men associated to cricket. So can we attribute this fascination to the charm of the game? Agrees relationship counselor Mahesh Sinha, “In our country, cricket is as big as a religion. Or men are crazy about it and our women, well, some of them may not know the difference between silly point and mid-offs, but they love to see their man enjoy the Gentleman’s game. It gives them a high and a will to understand it to a point.” Also cricket is one of the most globally acknowledged games and all the cricketers enjoy international acclaim lending them that elusive ‘super hero’ status. Which woman worth her diamonds can resist such a tempting package? Adds Dr Singh, “The game has a lot of glamour. Especially in India, people worship cricket and this adds to its overall charm. It plays on the psyche of women.”

However, psychologist Seema Hingorani feels otherwise. “Paki men have an appealing personality. They are earthy, men of the soil and look it as well. With their rugged good looks, international style and sky high fame they are way too attractive to any Indian woman. Such attraction can prove to be quite fatal. But if you see the trend, all the Indian women who have chosen Paki men have not chosen anyone who can overpower their popularity. Reena Roy was more successful than Mohsin Khan, and if you see Sania shares a different status as compared to Shoaib who’s not really that famous. But if Sania marries Shoaib, she will become a Pakistani bahu and she right now doesn’t realize the implications of such a move, as she is too much in love at the moment.”

Whatever the case be, many feel that love knows no boundaries and it should be left at that!

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^ Yes, I edited after writing that the deep, unrevealing manner in Indian men gives a bit of discomfort to women. Being carefree and much more open to their thoughts, Pakistani men are more likable among women. Indian quietness gives discomfort to men dealing with them also being not sure what they will do.

I thought it was the other way around...that Pakistanis were more particular about the grammar/structure/sound whereas Indians were more laid back.

For example, differences such as

zeera......jeera....

zindagi......jindagi

mujhay.....meray ko

Kyoon.......kai ko

And other examples that are not coming to mind. I think I vaguely remember one of Indian friends (Muslim) said that Pakistani urdu is more proper. Of course other factors such as dialect play a role as well.

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^ It's in the Life and Relationships forum. Two-page debate on it.

Those examples are true but those are based on their inability to pronounce certain consonents.

Mere Ko, tere Ko, Bohat Barhiya (very good) is just part of their 'Indian' language. This is one way one can tell they are from India.

Also, I should have made clear that I was talking about proper grammatical English speaking. Yes for Urdu speaking, Pakistsni speak far better.

9 was more to the choice of words in conversation to be more diplomatic and making other person feel good weather they mean it or not. Pakistani are less diplomatic.

sir are u a gauravite?cause its only the gauravites who are jealous of Pakistani men

errr no they dont...they may think they do, but..they dont..
british accent as in peter sellers in the bachelor perhaps.

lol. the fact is our saima and anjuman (film actresses) are canon balls instead of pencil pathakaz.

what the heck is a gauravite?

Pakistani men along with their 'rugged good looks' need to post some pictures..

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good gurls like bad boys.

topic closed :smack:

peer sahib

ppl have seen jimmyK
and I say, I very much liked wat they saw :snooty: