Re: The whole gay thing..
This might be a khushifehmi type thing but when someone starts talking to you, and you gradually find out they’re gay.. do you get suspicious that they might’ve been interested in you 
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You know I tell myself this everyday, "There's all sorts of people in this world, live and let live." I just mind my own business and do what i feel is right. I think I've pretty much seen it all so far. People are wierd.
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I dont mind gay men as long as what they are doing is behind closed doors and not behind my back. :)
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Why can’t you live and let-live?
Worry about your life and leave others to their own. Typical desi behavior!
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How about if the closed door is behind your back?
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i happened to catch glimpses of a gay parade in san francisco last week and have new admiration for gay folks. it takes a lot of guts to walk around with nothing but some balloons on. no straight man will ever have gutts to do that.
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Doesnt really worry me but just something i’ve wondered 
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I dunno why the sex thing doesnt bother you because it drives me nuts!
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Well its something I prefer not to think about. It IS gross, but I just dont wanna think about it..
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Girls are a lot more likely to be lesbian or bi than a guy...
I remember watching pulp fiction...damn that looks brutal...
But for a girl its natural...its just something a man would do or in asians case wont do...except the girl does it a lot better...
I remember a sociology report which reported that nearly 50% of straight girls interviewed enjoyed lesbian porn cos they could relate to it...whilst for guys it was like 1%...
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Relate to it? How?
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Lol...the process isnt it...its the same thing that a man does...
Whilst with gay guys the process is completely different...
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How is it? just aggressive grabbing or somethin (im assumin thas wat guys do, esp to each other.. ewwww :yukh: )lol
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lol im trying not to go into detail...but for you i guess i have to...
Gay men recieve and give anal sex to each other...the concept of recieving is alien to a man and is not something a man can ever do with a woman(minus a strap on) so cant relate to...
Every woman enjoys someone that will go down on them...and that is what men do...and that is also what girls do and iv been told are a lot better at...
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OMG ew.. nevermind.. lol someone answer my Q :p
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I don’t believe in labels such as homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual because one it is ridiculous to group our selves based on what we like to shag and also because I believe the majority of people are neither completely on one end of the spectrum nor on the other and nor bang on in the middle.
Many men who have sex with each other don’t go anywhere near each others butts, there’s plenty of other things they do with or to each other and feel completely fulfilled. I don’t think men who like each other should have anal sex, firstly because it’s the major cause of spreading HIV and AIDS and secondly because the anus is not a sexual organ, I can not fathom why anyone would want anything up their bowels which are for stooling out of, there’s other more hygienic ways of satisfying your partners genitalia.
I think receiving anal sex is what causes the effeminateness in such men, it changes their psych to a submissive one.
There are men who identify themselves as normal but do things other than anal with other men similar to what women do together and they don’t come off as batty.
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So who you shag (or would or want to) isn't indicative of being homo but what about the whole falling in love wit em?
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Sara, you are trying to sterotype here, I have seen some very pretty lesbians, some of them actresses.
And yes gay men have to keep themselves up to date coz at the end of they day they have two competitors, women and other men.
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^ Im sure there are pretty feminine ones, i’m not talkin about them i’m talkin about the butchy/manly ones 
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Labels for "sexuality" shouldn't exist.
Why should the gender we want to shag or shag define us?
Men who shag other men are simply men who shag other men and men who shag women are that.