The Ugly Sidekick

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@PyariCgudia

Woah…aren’t you the one posting that pizza hut dough is haraam and that certain vitamins are haraam, etc?

ahem

Maulana PCG wishes to inform you that calling one of God’s creations as ugly is also haraam.

Whats wrong with calling someone ugly. Allah (SWT) made some people that way, there is nothing wrong with being ugly.
This is a very common question many guys face in college years.

I think I might have touched couple of nerves here.
I apologize!

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@sadzzz

actually not really true… people generally tend to make friends with people who they unconsciencly believe are just as attractive as they are themselves..

maybe, just maybe.. its you who cant see the “ugly” friends beauty… ??

Bulls eye!

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@Sara516

Well dope she has a point… saying dough and vitamins and soaps are haram, but then calling someone ugly is perfectly Ok?

There is nothing wrong with describing someone’s physical appearance, if you call someone fat, it is not haraam.

But then again, knowlingly committing haraam acts like eating jhatka food etc is a huge sin.

Go ponder!

[Sara516]

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Well no, fat isn't, but ugly is very mean thing to say.... lusting after a girl and calling her ugly is a sin as well :D

[CorruptAngel]

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you know us ugly sidekick girls like to see you tharki guys look pathetic in front of our pretty friends...it's so much fun :D

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@Sara516

Well no, fat isn’t, but ugly is very mean thing to say… lusting after a girl and calling her ugly is a sin as well

First of all, what is the difference between calling someone fat or ugly? They are both adjetives describing someone’s physical appearance. Some people would rather be called ugly then fat. And there is nothing wrong with being either one of them. Allah (SWT) has made people in different shapes and sizes.

When did I ever say I was “lusting” after a girl?
I was expressing my interest in starting a conversation with her, there is nothing wrong with that.

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@CurruptAngel

you know us ugly sidekick girls like to see you tharki guys look pathetic in front of our pretty friends…it’s so much fun

Thanks for your reply, now tell me, what does a guy interested in your “prettier” friend has to do to get rid of you folks?

[Sara516]

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If all ur after is conversation, then u wudnt hav a problem with the "ugly girl" wud u?

[PyariCgudia]

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“Ugly” is not a factual description of a physical experience. Its not undisputed like “She has two arms”.

“Ugly” is subjective. It depends on who is judging. If all you see in a girl is her beauty or her lack of beauty AS YOU PERCEIVE IT, and then you don’t care to get to know her further, then you do not have HALAAL priorities, brother. :nono:

In fact, there is a hadith, right, halaal-haraam boy, that says marry for piety, not beauty or wealth.

Its okay. Guys that go only for looks end up getting what they deserve later on.

[_Tikhi_Jalebi]

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@dope

It’s common knowledge why pretty girls surround themselves with not too pretty friends. Doing so accentuates their prettiness.

I wanna kick guys in the face who say this!

[KashmiriRainDrops]

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How did we get into religion again I think some of u r taking the word “ugly” too seriously so lighten up…of course it’s not nice of him to call that girl ugly…but i’m sure most of us have used that word to describe someone or something at some point or another…ok so his choice of words isn’t that good, but let’s just stick to his issue yea… it wud have been better if he just said that he likes this girl but her friend is always around, and “how do i get rid of the friend so i can talk to this girl alone”…and i don’t think most girls who some mite consider “beautiful” deliberately pick friends who r ugly…that is really shallow…most ppl have friends based on personality and who they get along with…like it or not umair_ahmed, she is her friend…so u need to respect that and get on her good side too…don’t really have any ideas (perhaps a guy shud tell u some), but try to get to know both of them maybe? And then, once they’re both liking u (hopefully!) then u cud ask if the two of u can be excused, so u may talk in private…i duno, but good luck

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@PyariCgudia

“Ugly” is not a factual description of a physical experience. Its not undisputed like “She has two arms”.**

Ugly is just a word. In many Hadees, Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) is described to be very good looking with “noor” on his face. Which means describing someone based on their looks is not a bad deed.
It is our society that has made the word “ugly” into something horrible.
Just like among desis the word “Kaali” is used in a derogatory manner, but around the world it is just another skin color.

“Ugly” is subjective. It depends on who is judging. If all you see in a girl is her beauty or her lack of beauty AS YOU PERCEIVE IT, and then you don’t care to get to know her further, then you do not have HALAAL priorities, brother. :nono:

In fact, there is a hadith, right, halaal-haraam boy, that says marry for piety, not beauty or wealth.

For god sakes, who said I was going to marry her. It was just another innocent question made into something horrible.

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@KashmiriRainDrops

How did we get into religion again I think some of u r taking the word “ugly” too seriously so lighten up…of course it’s not nice of him to call that girl ugly…but i’m sure most of us have used that word to describe someone or something at some point or another…ok so his choice of words isn’t that good, but let’s just stick to his issue yea… it wud have been better if he just said that he likes this girl but her friend is always around, and “how do i get rid of the friend so i can talk to this girl alone”…and i don’t think most girls who some mite consider “beautiful” deliberately pick friends who r ugly…that is really shallow…most ppl have friends based on personality and who they get along with…like it or not umair_ahmed, she is her friend…so u need to respect that and get on her good side too…don’t really have any ideas (perhaps a guy shud tell u some), but try to get to know both of them maybe? And then, once they’re both liking u (hopefully!) then u cud ask if the two of u can be excused, so u may talk in private…i duno, but good luck

Finally, an answer with common sense.
Thanks for the advice.

[Moodie_Foodie]

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win over the ugly friend

[lussi]

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call 1-800-WINGMAN…he’ll f**k the ugly one..

[skhan]

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What's with all this political correctness, "beauty inside", "nice personality", halal haram marriages, and eye of the beholder crap? The guy just asked a simple question not for your personalized morality lecture.

FF is right, if the pretty girl is interested she'll make sure the ugly sidekick disappears.

[Starsky]

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^Heck, you’re right, the guy just asked for tips, not some darn lecture about marriage.

Too much edginess here

Or maybe the holier than thou crowd often find themselves as the ‘sidekick’ and find offense to it.

[skhan]

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^ Careful there, might hurt a lot feelings! :)

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@skhan

^ Careful there, might hurt a lot feelings!

I think I did that in the first post