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no...
my father passed away last year...n it still feels as if he is with me. sometimes i think phone will ring and i'll hear him saying **Hello **in his usual way. but sadly it will never happen now. he is out of sign but def not out of mind n heart and will never be.

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sorry to hear this saieen. may your Father alwasy rest in peace and heaven. amen.
i 've read that parents are always looking over their children to be their guide. so please find comfort in this truth.

Never.
I just wonder how someone can just "forget" about someone just b/c they dont c them physically... how strong their relationship was to begin with. I don't belive that crap that u can not talk to anyone for six months and then be back to normal.

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hm. the thing with this is, it is obviously hard for anyone to stay embittered and alone.
so people do set a limit to their patience levels and say, if a person is not there for you, then you will lose their presence.

it might just happen, that some bonds are unbreakable, though.

aisay dastoor ko subh-e-benoor ko
Main Nahin Maanta, Main Nahin Maanta

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no

eventually yes. if their out of ur life long enough..depednding on how strong ur bond was with them..then htey eventually be out of ur mind..but mayb not out of the heart.

No for special relations or whom we give importance

But

Yes for those who doesn't have any relationship or whom we don't give that much importance.

I give importance to all. No matter I have any relation with them or not.

BILLI bahan

Sometimes hum jinkay liaay ansoo bahatay hain ya jin pay dil o jaan say martay hain unki nazron main hamari ya hamaray mohabbat o khuloos ki koi qadr o qeemat naheen hoti so aison kay liaay apnay qeemti ansoo bahana ahmaqana harkat hai.

Allah jo karta hai bohat achcha karta hai. Jo hamaray liaay achchay naheen hotay Allah unko hum say door kar deta hai hum na samjhi main samajh naheen patay.

Ansoon bahanay say pahlay sochna chahyay hum apnay Allah ko kitna takleef detay hain ro kar is liaay kay hum uskay mahboob hotay hain aur apnay mehboob ko koi rota naheen daikh sakta aur na hi ralana chahta hai.

Bohat khoob baat kahi aap nain billi ki dushi aapa.

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yeah.

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:(

I will not anything about your name, so coming to the thread ofcourse no.

definitely not.as long as you have a strong relationship with them emotionally and mentally,it wouldn't really matter alot even if they would be away physically..

excellent advice given to k.billi..very well said :k:

Well said in few lines.

You definitely are a SHINING STAR. I LOVE YOUR NAME.

Thanks Soni. Tajarba kia hai baal to yoonhi dhoop main sufaid huway hain.

thanks :)

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Main bhi khush.