The quest for fair skinned wife

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Re: The quest for fair skinned wife

@phoenixdesi

but what is the solution and i am not talking about the fair skin problem. i am talking about a serious human right issue where girls per our societal norm have to parade in-front of complete strangers and then get rejected for one reason or the other…and that too again and again. imagine psychological burden that girls carry because of this pathetic tradition of ours. but of course we will never ever think of changing this norm because alternatively, girls and guys would need to date on their own and find their own partner.

now i understand this is our societal norm, so i really dont know the answer.

I think education may be a solution to such… discrimination? It surely would help in making individual’s well rounded and to understand that personality and other attributes are just as important than just a person’s outer appearance.

Fairer people are by no means better-looking or just “better” than people who are darker. I’ve seen darker people who are not only better looking, but also have better personalities.

As for the psychological burden that girls have to carry when being paraded around, the parent’s will be fully aware of what the girl is being subject to, but it is the fear of the daughters not getting married (before their time runs out) that outweighs such concerns.