the Qualities of a Good Wife?

[Impulse]

Re: the Qualities of a Good Wife?

@Sara516

Be naked

she cant be naked all the time

[Pinnacle]

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oh well its not that hard to please a man :D
besides da basics: food and sex, u hav to play along ur woman's instincts to be da perfect wife or at least almost perfect ;)

[Sara516]

Re: the Qualities of a Good Wife?

Fine sexy lingerie, its cheap.

[Afridi786]

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Such a dirty mind...LoL

[Sara516]

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only you would take lingerie as being something dirty

[AQ]

Re: the Qualities of a Good Wife?

Perhaps, we should ponder upon the teachings of our own Guide Prophet:saw: who said:

“The best property a man can have is a remembering tongue (about Allah), a grateful heart and a believing wife who helps him in his faith.”

He:saw: said:

“The world, the whole of it, is a commodity and the best of the commodities of the world is a virtuous wife.”

He:saw: also said:

“A Muslim must not hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in her, let him be pleased with one that is good.”

[Afridi786]

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Fine and sexy lingerie is not cheap.

[aahmed]

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A perfect wife is one who does whatever you command her to do, one who acts like the perfect waitress. Cooks and cleans for you, does your laundry, basically does the things your ammi did when you lived at home. Isn't that what most paindoo desi men want?

BTW that was sarcasm... I believe most people put it very succinctly above.

[Impulse]

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@aahmed

A perfect wife is one who does whatever you command her to do, one who acts like the perfect waitress. Cooks and cleans for you, does your laundry, basically does the things your ammi did when you lived at home. Isn't that what most paindoo desi men want?

BTW that was sarcasm... I believe most people put it very succinctly above.

if a woman truly loves a guy, she would be happy to do MORE than the above for him from the goodness of her own heart.

however if she doesnt love him, she wouldnt willingly want to do anything for him.

[hussain87]

Re: the Qualities of a Good Wife?

@aahmed

A perfect wife is one who does whatever you command her to do, one who acts like the perfect waitress. Cooks and cleans for you, does your laundry, basically does the things your ammi did when you lived at home. Isn't that what most paindoo desi men want?

BTW that was sarcasm... I believe most people put it very succinctly above.

is main koi buri baat nahi:)

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@Impulse

if a woman truly loves a guy, she would be happy to do MORE than the above for him from the goodness of her own heart.

however if she doesnt love him, she wouldnt willingly want to do anything for him.

exactly.....
a good husband would never make his wife do anything....a good wife would do anything for him cuz she wants 2 (out of love for him).

[Mograkali]

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@Afridi786

What makes a woman a good wife in your opinion? ?***

Some one who is not afraid to be friend, lover and helpmate to her spouse.

Some one who is happy to be friend, lover and helpmate to her spouse.

And more importantly someone who is not INTIMIDATED into being a "friend, lover and helpmate" to her spouse.

Someone who lives her life without seeking constant approval.

@Afridi786

What do you think makes a woman a good wife from a man's point of view??

**

All of the above. Atleast according to the enlightened men that I have met.... especially my own husband.

@Afridi786

*And which one would you be?

Certainly the kind described above.

[Afridi786]

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Any of you interested in getting married? PM me... :)

[nia_khan]

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Stop making a freakin ideal for yourself people :p

Snap out of it and be realistic.

A woman who rocks your boat, make you feel like king of her world and is committed to you. hold on to that person and NEVER ever let her go for even a second.

It takes Ages to find someone who loves you :~) and when you find that person hold on to them... dont start judging them if they fit your criteria of perfect wife or husband :~)

Snap out.... wake up ... subha ho gai hai...

[parissenoor]

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@Afridi786

What makes a woman a good wife in your opinion?

What do you think makes a woman a good wife from a man's point of view?

And which one would you be?

woman point of view: a good wife is a smiling to make him feel better, she is trying to find solutions to problems, and make him think about other stuff if he is too worried, a good wife is trusting and is his hubby's best friend

man point of view: a good wife is not whinning about cleaning, cooking and other stuff...a good wife is not whinning about him watching 10 tv channels at a time:D
a good wife do not have any male friend, and all her colleagues and clients are FEMALES, a good wife can be seen by no one except him, a ood wife never sleeps, waste of time, a good wife is never sick...

i'll be a blend of both, depending also how much he is trying to make my life compatible with man good wife point of view

[aahmed]

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@nia_khan

Stop making a freakin ideal for yourself people

Snap out of it and be realistic.

A woman who rocks your boat, make you feel like king of her world and is committed to you. hold on to that person and NEVER ever let her go for even a second.

It takes Ages to find someone who loves you :~) and when you find that person hold on to them… dont start judging them if they fit your criteria of perfect wife or husband :~)

Snap out… wake up … subha ho gai hai…

NIA!! YOU ROCK! I agree completely, what is this new trend of unmarried men going around publishing their fantasies of a perfect wife… dudes, chill, when the time comes you’ll find someone God willing. Right now you’re creating this unrealistic romantic notion of marriage that’s rubbish. You’re looking for a wife, not a new car that you have to do so much technical research. When the right woman comes along, you’ll know.

[Aish]

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would any of u men ever beg ur wife to come back to u?

[hussain87]

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[Afridi786]

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@Aishaaa2.1

would any of u men ever beg ur wife to come back to u?

If it was my fault i would.

[PhatBalongri]

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on your knees?