Re: The proper way of divorcing
3 talaqs is the way .. all scholars/school of thoughts are agreed on that. Only debate is .. what constitute 3 talaqs. Some says 3 means at three different times, some says that 3 means uttering the word 3 times, be it in one time or 3 different times.
If hubby claims that he has given 3 talaqs, whether woman heard or not, talaq is valid.
If woman claims that hubby gave 3 talaqs, but hubby said no I did not, then there is a process called 'La'aan' that both will be subjected to.