The HOT Seat

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@Gujjar_Badshah

Hashmat bhai ko aap sab ne mil ker hot seat per bitha dia kitni buri baat hai, hashmat bhai garam to nahi zada

**are bhai sab ne mil ke biThaa to diyaa part mushkil yeh hai k me ko “hot tawe” par se utarne bhiinahiiN dete kisse shikaayat karuuN k sharaarat mire saath huii! **

@Little Princess

*Which is the hardest thing you ever had to do?

**see my mom’s burial **

If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?
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i wud go to saudi arabia to perform Haj iA

**If You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. which would you chose?

**trust…love without trust is NOT worth iot and also if peop[le loose trust in you, life wud become more like a curse **

**Are you usually late, early or right on time?

**mostly early to my appointments **

**whts the worst punishment you had when you were a child?

**i received a few slaps from my dad for doing something that i was told NOT to do…stayed over for dinner after a relative’s funeral. i received spankings only twice from my dad and once from my big bro…3 times in my entire life…pretty good…eh? **

**Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a heart break or have never loved before?

**true love and had a heartbreak **

**Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
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yes…i wud want a friend that i can understand just like i understand myself **

**If you could do anything OR wish for anything that would come true, what would you wish?
***a loving, caring, deendara, responsible and friendly wife with good proud to be kids that wud constitute my kinda family **

@Dania

agar aap ko Gupshup chorna paray tou kya chorr daingay?

@Little Princess

Hashmat sahab..more qs for u
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ok LP…do i have a multiple choice?**

your dream job.

pilot…flying Airbus Industrie A380 a double decker, the bestest flying machine ever!

Give a specific example of a time when you used good judgement and logic to solve a problem?
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when i was kicked outta med school and i had a bleak future. i had the option to try for med school again and waste a few years or try doing something else which had no guaranteed employment. i chose not to wait and started more traditional education, that is under graduate program. i had calculated the risks and possibilities. i had figured out that after i graduate my bro won’t be so mad and he will help me immigrate to canada…it did work. i came to canada and finished my education and after which i landed a gainful employment and now i’m setteled in life…every1 is happpy masha Allah except my dad who did not live long enuf to see me succeed in life

**What is your philosophy towards life?

live as Allah has ordained you to live like. this world is just a passing phase. never loose sight of where u r going in this world and in the hereafter. always be the best person u can be as a good son, brother, husband, father and neighbour and friend never forget the less fortunate…help others as much as u can

in your opinion how does socialization help shape a person’s self image?
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u are know by the company u keep…so if u are discrete in choosing good morally upright friends, u can’t go wrong

** do you believe ethnocentrism affects your viewpoints about certain things? Certain things like your culture, your beliefs and your values?

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no…belief system is not subject to change with the kind of culture u live in. ur beliefs must always be stronger that the pulls of the societal abnormalies :)**

Do you think you are a pushover or you stand your ground and make it known?
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i fall in the latter category coz i ain’t a quitter. i wud hold my ground to the last drop of blood in me. a man got to do what a man has got to do :)**

What is one thing that makes you peeved off a lot?
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when i see people talking ignorantly about religion and pose as they know it all…for me, neem mullaa is Khatra e iimaan just like neem Hakeem is Khatra e jaan

What is one selfless act you have done so far in life?
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going to the General Hospital in my town and talkking to older folks there and entertaining them. believe me, in this western society, elders/seniors are the most neglected folks and their own children do NOT come to visit them. sadly, our people have started to follow the crowd and now i see indo pak muslim seniors being ignores/neglected by their own children…shame on them!

**What kind of people do you get along with the most?

anyone who is reasonable, who listens to reasons, who are religious but not fanatic, those who are respectful. those who respect elders and women.

** what do you like about the area you live in?

its smallness, quietness, its nicer people, its traditional aspects of life.

**are you friendly?

extremely, i think its my weakness as well…sometimes, i pay a price for being too friendly