Frankly speaking, the people in Pakistan could care less. You need to understand that when you live in a country where kidnappings, bombings and ethnic cleansing (yes) are every day events you start pretending everything is ok in your neck of the woods. I'd go as far as to say 90% of Pakistanis dont even consider NWFP a part of Pakistan. There has been a backlash recently but not much has happened.
Call relatives Pakistan after a bombing? "Oh, that's nothing. It was far away.
Call relaties in Pakistan after political parties massacre each other? "Oh, that's nothing. They're always killing each other."
That is not to say SOME people dont think there are problems... it's just that very few Pakistanis do anything about it.