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LOL well why are u surprised:p when u will get engaged ur mom will give ur fiancee lots of eidi as well 
When I’m engaged America will have it’s first mexican president lol.
My mom doesn’t give me shiz.
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Yeh but she will to your fiancee. I think it's like a tradition that the in laws send eidi to the bride to be every eid until she gets married:p
Yeh but she will to your fiancee. I think it's like a tradition that the in laws send eidi to the bride to be every eid until she gets married:p
lol well i aint gonna be da bride -_- i don't get any eidi :(
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but i thought u were married aisha 
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whose talking about me here :S i am telling him about what sassus usually do. btw am nikkahfied.. not rukhsified.. still time...
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Lol when I get married I dun want any of that valima and rukhsati crap. It's worthless. Maybe just like 1 dinner after the nikkah.
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Umm that's not crap lol it's actually required in islam to do a valima! to announce to everyone that ur married man / woman now... rukhsati is an added part in weddings agreed.
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oh ok
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yup
Umm that's not crap lol it's actually required in islam to do a valima! to announce to everyone that ur married man / woman now... rukhsati is an added part in weddings agreed.
i swear it is not in Islam. It's not anywhere lol. It's just Pakistani cultural shizz.
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I can find you references just not have time. Valima is an essential thing.
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lol valima is basically like the real dinner, I'm ok with that. Just like a dinner after the nikkah and then done. Anyway this is da cafe so :p
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Yeh well. Whatever term you want to give the walima. Dinner , reception etc etc
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amhmm abhi sy jafri ? When time come u"ll do each nd everything jafri
I aprove it
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lol yeah. If I don't do all of that, mama waat lagaaein gi..
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huh