I believe mohabat sirf aik baar hoti hai lakin pyar bar bar ho sakta hai…but this is also true kay zindagi sirf mohabat kay saharay nahi guzari ja sakti…and we should accept the reality…and move forward. When responsiblites come to our shoulder then we put mohabat aside and try our matermonial life.
no no...main yeh sochti hoon ke husband wife ko pahle sab kuch sach sach batana chahiey....ager husband ko bad main kissi doosre se pata chale to kia us ko takleef na ho gi....
is se acha hai ke ashu hood bata de...??
mera khayal hai k jis k saath zindagi guzari jati hai mohabbat toh uusi k saath hi hoti hai...aur waisay bhi yeh natural hai k ager arranged marriage ho bhi toh kuch arsay k baad larki apnay husband se waqai mein mohabbat kerni shuru ker daiti hai....chahay wo pehlay kisi aur ko hi like kerti ho....mein nae toh yehi dekha hai harf taraf...baqi ka mujhe nahi pata!
Hamari zindagi main kuch rishtay aisay hotay hai jo wakat kay saath develop hotay hai aur phir khatam ho jatay hai....agar zinda hee rakhna hai tu usko aik new rishtay ka naam day day. Ho sakta hai husband iss baat ka saboot day kay he is very open minded and he doesn't have any problem with ur past but later he might accuse you. so kya faida mahtma gandhi bannay ka. zindagi is like a chapter once u finished u done...move on..read another chapter seek lesson from the previos one....
See this is something i m totally against. Dil main koi or, or shadi kisi or se...sahi munafiqat hei... That is very very unfair to your husband to be.
you should have waited until you were totally over him, and then you should have gone ahead to get married. Now after you get married, it will be hypocritic of you to say you love your husband.
Jheel, this is the perfect example in response to your post.
Don't get married unless you completly over with ur past...though its hard to go against the parents and society but it will be justified for both parties.
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ooper ke sare posts bohat hi ache lage............
lekin friends.......yeh mairee problem nahi...asal main jo mujhe milla tha us ko pahle kissi aur se mohabbat thi........