its not only healthy but refreshes u. makes u think n re-assess good n bad in ur relationship
OK wat abt kid? i seriously need a break from my kids. someone willing to keep them for a week? :D:
I'll take your kiddsss....I love babies and little kids, and they looove me :)
Niksik
December 2, 2009, 11:21pm
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Whenever I've been away, I haven't enjoyed myself one bit and instead of feeling refreshed I've felt incomplete.
awwww…
I want to know how TLK bhai felt when you were away. I’m sure he wasn’t happy either as I grasped from his posts in this thread.
TLK
December 2, 2009, 11:25pm
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NO I am not happy Hareem. When I am away because of job or when Niks went to meet her parents, those are the times I feel miserable.
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Awww...that's really cute. May Allah increase your love for each other even more.
me and psyah(yani aap kay chotay say nephew aur neice) we can learn a lot from you two.
Niksik
December 2, 2009, 11:29pm
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Ya and a case of Avent bottles and pacifiers are on their way to you
TLK
December 2, 2009, 11:29pm
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me and psyah(yani aap kay chotay say nephew aur niece) we can learn a lot from you two.
Yup, you two and our nephew and niece, all 4 can learn ...
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don't know about healthy, but ya its a good thing. hubby was away on a course recently and it gave me a chance to miss and look fwd to all the little things i otherwise take for granted, as part of the routine. we were texting cheesy msgs all week and it was fun !
TLK
December 2, 2009, 11:36pm
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Being away because of an unavoidable trip and taking an intentional break are 2 diff things wondergurl.
Mabrook
December 2, 2009, 11:37pm
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I'll take your kiddsss....I love babies and little kids, and they looove me :)
my kids will change ur views :)
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TLK, oh of course. was just relating my experience with a generic 'break' :)
Sara516
December 2, 2009, 11:41pm
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NO I am not happy Hareem. When I am away because of job or when Niks went to meet her parents, those are the times I feel miserable.
awww mashallah thats so cute. May Allah swt increase that feeling (of love, not of misery).
NYCGori
December 3, 2009, 1:31am
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Tolerance for physical separation will vary from person to person. What I think it most important is not some prescribed period of x hours or days of separation, but that each partner in the relationship has a strong sense of self and has some means of self-realization and identity that is not totally dependent on another human being.
Re: Taking a break from your spouse
You guys might want to know about Extraversion and introversion - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
NJMasti
December 3, 2009, 1:37am
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cute Nik n TLK
so what happens if you spouse thinks of taking a break and goes like to another planet - and you actually wish he stays there!
Do they have The Bay and Robinson May on mars? If not then I dont mind