Soul Mate

Lifestyle Relationships
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^ by being a nice good human being

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or multiple personality disorder? :)

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i don't think that's enough for a person to be complete. everyone has the need to belong, to love and be loved by a romantic partner.

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i think if you're nice and good enough ... u get people around you who are nice to you and where u belong ... i'm not sure romantic partner is a necessity until a more mature period of ur life (mid 20 to late 20s i'd say) before than u can be complete with a good circle of frnds and family

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^i wasn't referring to young kids, i meant in the overall span of someone's life. so yes, it becomes a necessity in the 20's.

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one is not born half a person, who you're with only makes you better...like fabolous says

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yeah i think in later part of your life you need somoene to be there for you ... a romantic sort of a person ... but htats more for company along the way ... i mean i kno people who are attached to their significant others and need them to complete themselves ... but i don't think thats the healthy way to go about life cuz u never know ... i think u can be complete by urself with the help of ur sig other and help him/her be a bete rperson tooo

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^exactly, so you do need someone else.

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well going strictly by its definition, a soulmate is defined as the other half of one's soul...thus the notion of completing oneself when you find one. now ofcourse some ppl take it literally and are looking for their missing half with all the trimmings and others might use the term more loosely for love, intimacy and compatibility.

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I read a book once abt soul mates, it says that soul mates dnt necessarily mean the person who you fall in love with or marry...it could be anyone who has walked into your life who made a drastic change in ur life...who teaches you very important life changing lessons in ur life..and when they have done that they walk out of your life.

I like to think that we have that special someone somewhere made for me...and i also do believe that the other person does complete us in some ways...otherwise Allah would not have created Eve for Adam if Adam was all happy by himself.

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Guys are soo stupid
i hate guys

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i thought someone was my soulmate once- turned out to be a jerk..

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Soulmates do exist, not everyone is lucky enough to find theirs

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so some people are just not lucky, and u are

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soul mates = Bull S***

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That's awesome and very true, do you remember which book it was?

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JIs sa be shadi howi ... wohi ha

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There's no perfect definition of a soul mate i don't think. But in my definition a soul mate is someone who complete's you and i believe in soul mates! I've found mine :D

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what i have learned regarding soul mate is that its not necessary to have a romantic link with the person but infacts its the links b/w souls of two ppl...how much spiritually they are compatible with eachother, its a connection b/w their hearts and minds!. We, as human beings, are not just an ensemble of biological organs, flesh and blood. There is something in all of us, which is divine, non-physical and of higher consciousness.

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I think soulmates do exist. It's just this thing I was reading in the Qur'an- that Allah made everything in pairs.
However finding this soulmate is something which would be hard. I doubt many people actually end up with their soulmate, usually they'd just settle for what they've been given (I'm talking about our desi lot, not that I think non-desi's have better luck.) It's quite depressing to think there may be someone out there that would "complete you" but you will never find him cos he's eg. on the other side of the world?