Nadia You are talking about something completely different. We are talking about neighbors (husband and wife) fighting, not the crisis in Sudan. Why would I care if my neighbors (husband and wife) fight every night or live happily ever after? Yes, you are supposed to care about your neighbor that they don't sleep hungry and all that good stuff, but miyan biwi ki laraai unka aapas ka masla hai. If I jump in the fight of a husband and a wife and try to solve their problem, do you honestly think they'll appreciate it and thank me? or do you think they'll tell me step out because it's none of my business?
If you say they'll appreciate it, then I must be living in a different world than yours.
oh man i am so sorry for not replying earlier to your post. How are you doing? i sent you an e-mail on your hotmail account, did you receive it? Sorry yaar… thanks for the kind words. MUCH appreciated You’re a sweetheart. Please check your e-mail, i replied in detail there.
Shikra, You are right, not every couple is going to appreciate what some might perceive as interference.
Each situation is more complex than it always seems from our perspectives, as outsiders looking in.
Anyways, i am just returning from Tarawih so i don’t want to nullify my sawaabs and i don’t want to argue with anyone. To each their own opinion. Take care of yourself, enjoy your Ramadan & All the very best regards,
nadia
Nadz! i was waiting for u get back on this.. i got ur email.. i for soem reason cant make my hotmail work for more than 2 minutes.. it gives me this sick death look and then dies...
no need to apologise girl!! i should be the one saying sorry!! got loads to tell u...
I will Inshallah reply once i get home... :) i hope ur doing well.. it was great hearing from u again dude!!
Sadzzz yaar… yer a real sweetheart, thanks for trying to make me feel better/less guilty for everything i did … you had every right to be pissed at me. Instead you did just the opposite by trying to take the blame on yourself. i really appreciate that. i replied to your e-mail…[you gotta go read it - it’s a mega e-mail, i think yer gonna be surprised]. Thanks for your lovely e-mail… very very interesting.
Happy reading! i am glad you are back and doing well Masha’Allah.
Shikra, You are right, not every couple is going to appreciate what some might perceive as interference.
Each situation is more complex than it always seems from our perspectives, as outsiders looking in.
Anyways, i am just returning from Tarawih so i don't want to nullify my sawaabs and i don't want to argue with anyone. To each their own opinion. Take care of yourself, enjoy your Ramadan & All the very best regards,
nadia
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I am not arguing nor am I inviting you to argue with me. I was just saying that you were talking about something else that does not have much to do with what Irem has posted. I am not the only one who didn't get the "weird" part, check the replies above me. I still say what a couple does in their bedroom (or house) is their personal business, muhalley waley shouldn't worry about their personal business.
As someone above said, I bet you everything was fine between them after a few minutes (or hours) and they must be making love. No kidding, that's the nature of some people. Some people have a fight and then they show their passion and care for each other after the fight, it's true.
But anyway, Happy Ramadan to you too and thanks for wishing me the best.
pelay toa jee bahr kay gossip kar lee, ab qualms hoa rahain ain.
har do haftay baad is bandi koa kuch 'wierd' say log miltay hain, jinhay daikhnay kay baray mai yeh poori rrat soa nahi paati, aur phir humanity pay say iman uth jata hai.
do haftay baat phir iman uthnay ka waqt aa jata hai.
itni sari naiviety hai kay khatam honay kay nahi aati.
seriosuly yr mind works like how those of old single women who have nothing to do but watch kay mohally o duniya ki sharafat kidhar jaa rahi hai.
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*Originally posted by ghuLail: *
pelay toa jee bahr kay gossip kar lee, ab qualms hoa rahain ain.
har do haftay baad is bandi koa kuch 'wierd' say log miltay hain, jinhay daikhnay kay baray mai yeh poori rrat soa nahi paati, aur phir humanity pay say iman uth jata hai.
do haftay baat phir iman uthnay ka waqt aa jata hai.
itni sari naiviety hai kay khatam honay kay nahi aati.
seriosuly yr mind works like how those of old single women who have nothing to do but watch kay mohally o duniya ki sharafat kidhar jaa rahi hai.
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i am so sorry for not replying earlier to your post. How are you doing? i sent you an e-mail on your hotmail account, did you receive it? Sorry yaar… thanks for the kind words. MUCH appreciated 
You’re a sweetheart. Please check your e-mail, i replied in detail there.
yaar… yer a real sweetheart, thanks for trying to make me feel better/less guilty for everything i did … you had every right to be pissed at me. Instead you did just the opposite by trying to take the blame on yourself. i really appreciate that. i replied to your e-mail…[you gotta go read it - it’s a mega e-mail, i think yer gonna be surprised]. Thanks for your lovely e-mail… very very interesting. 
