stand tall and proud. no one will be able to defame you. it takes great courage to extract fun out of jokes aimed at you. and takes even greater strength to smile at those who talk down on you.
mother teresa died making others happy. so did bernie mac. both had different ways of making ppl happy. not everyone can be m/teresa. but we all have the capacity to become junior macs. so, do your best at what you can do. either doing the holy things or cracking jokes.
dont be too harsh on yourself and your asools. chill and have fun.
sir jab hum ko koe gali daita hai to us ka yeh mutlab nahi hota k we gonna turn into that something. we only get mad cuz our senses dont accept the fact that we actually alloted a very special time frame of our life to that person. otherwise defaming and respecting is in the hands of ALLAH SWT, not in the hands of human.
but then not every one will understands this, and also i guess my or someone else's parents (or might be they themselves) will not tolerate such behavior. i don't know how much you are aware of law but it is always good to google "libel and slander defamation cases and online forums"....so in future someone might take you to court.
i agree with you that it requires great deal of courage to extract fun out of jokes aimed at you. but you are confusing physical realm with the virtual one. in physical world all five senses translate your imagination, whereas on this virtual space you are bound to use either one or two sense. so it will be your conjecture, and not a conclusion for a joke that is it really a joke, or is it something?
you brought in mother teresa, well honesly not really a great example...y cuz she got what she deserves. she put hell load of years, patience for the humanity. and i am pretty sure she might had faced worst situations then here we have.
...phir bhi dekh lain india main ghurbat waheen ki waheen hai.
and i am pretty sure her, and edhi or other countless missionaries are not doing great task just to get a nobel prize...jis k bananay walay nay khud dynamite baneya tha.
yahi samad hai, or yahi forum hai, or yahi harkatay hain jo pata nahi inhain kitni baar apnay isi behavior ki wajha say ban kerwa chuki hain. :)
he claims he speaks the truth, well i also claim the same...phir mujhay koe BAN Q NAHI KERTA?
...all i can say is Be Honest with him...nor we are perfect, neither we were born perfect...but also only one person, or one moment can bring change in us, so please Be that person and make this moment that one!
ps. that is why i am always against of this "Banning" policy cuz it never let any one learn anything....and ppl repeat same mistakes, same behavior countless times, until they power like zardari to misuse them.
ps2. u never get to talk to me so how can u pass any judgement on my sense of humor? :(
- i asked him to delete my comments so he can all his fun, since i am the ONLY CORE REASON (lol. interestingly me the one kamzoor gal is stopping him. WOW!)...But he didnt...dont know why? prolly everyone else is really scared of his "zaban"..n he have no other issue to discuss. as u are asking me to IGNORE , he can also do the same
n i will try my best not to respond in this gallery.