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Neha, it becomes harder to answer the question because it's way too vague...as you haven't provided details.

Is it a relationship that you've been stuck in for the past 5-6 years...that isn't leading anywhere? Sometimes if the problem is taking a toll over you....robbing your peace of mind....straining your relationships with others...or you feel that it's one-sided/not being reciprocated......then consider letting go of the problem (if you can). Ask yourself if you're losing more than you're gaining from the situation...and weigh the pros and cons....make a lit of the options, etc.

As far as prayers and duas are concerned.....Allah answers. But that "answer" may be exactly what we want...and sometimes it isn't. "No" is considered an answer. Think about if you're willing to spend any more time on the problem than you already have (5-6) years. That's a huge chunk of time....life is short. Some problems like a terminal disease or death are harder/impossible to control. But if you HAVE some control over this problem (in other words you do have the ability to remove it from your life)........then free yourself if it's doing more harm than good.

If u r stuck with the problem for so long even after realizing it then that’s the real problem :rolleyes:
p.s. Prayers and Duas do help but more then that u need the balls 2 take some action

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God's delays are not God's denials. I had the same "problem" for 7 years. Prayed, did duas, kept extra fasts for 7 long years....my "problem" is solved now. Patience is the key if this is something you want bad enough. In the mean time, surround yourself with supportive people, who you can lean on if you need a shoulder to cry on.

And the bong idea is not bad either....LOL

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thanx everyone for the advice..:)

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If you have been able to live with the issue for the last 5-6 years, then the issue is less important than you are perceiving it to be.

Patience and dua.
And keep on trying to solve that problem.

That's not always true.. some women live with severe beatings for years and years :(

Change yourself.