Re: So what if I do not want to have kids?
[quote="Mirch"]
You have made a decision and have your own logic just tell everybody the same logic and keep on dealing with the issue as you have been. You will never be able to convince them that you and hubby do not have any 'defect' . quote]
Ladies , ladies if you are reading between the lines then please read this line in my post.
I am not saying her to go for a baby to shut everybody up. But as I see it that is the only way short of being rude and telling everybody off by saying that it is nobody's business. But she cannot do that either as our cultural , moral and relational values will not allow that.
I am 100 percent in favor of planned parenthood. I practice it myself. There was a 3 year planned gap between my first and second kid and 5 years planned gap between second and third. We went for a third kid because my wife wanted a girl and Allah blessed us with a very pretty princess. That is all we could handle.