Re: So ladies
Girls, please, I don’t want to be responsible for the breaking of your rosas…
Don’t hate the player, hate the game 
Re: So ladies
lol, you wish.
Re: So ladies
Because I know of other cases where men cheated. Someone I know very closely regularly lies about being at work while he is actually with his girlfriend. And this is an old man I am talking about, not some young 30something guy. So it goes both ways!
I dont get why you have assumed all girls are like that, based on a few sour experiences!
Re: So ladies
The only issue is that how are the husband and wife get to know each other. Money is important but it shouldn’t be given such a high place in your life that it eats up all your time. As time is one of the most important things in life and should be used carefully .
However it depend as everyone sees importance in different things. Some girls will be willing to accept others won’t.
Re: So ladies
That will never happen. I would make sure he is not working himself to death. I care too much for our relationship and his well being to let him work a 100 hours a week. He already works 60 hours and I am doing my best to do my part so he doesn’t feel burdened. I want a healthy and happy husband. Spending time together is our top priority.
Re: So ladies
I’d find out why he wants to work so many hours first. What is the purpose? Money? If its money, then I’d help him come to a place where he felt comfortable taking time off.
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Understandably, some careers are more demanding than others so I wouldn’t want to distract him from his ambitions. I would initially try to be understanding and keep myself busy with my own career…but I’m sure, a time will come where I would want him to cut down on hours, especially if there’s kids. It’s not always possible to cut down hours and that’s where understanding and patience comes in.
Re: So ladies
if you’re only finding this out AFTER marriage then you’ve got bigger problems.
Re: So ladies
Addiction - there is always a market open some where to trade.
Re: So ladies
^ This. I feel like this thread should be merged with the “Not being allowed to talk to a potential” thread. 
If a woman doesn’t know basic information like the guy’s work hours until AFTER marriage…then she’s clueless about plenty of other things that could potentially cause bigger problems.
Re: So ladies
If she loves you and you love her , it will not be much of a problem, I used to work 90 hours per week and carried many assignments home. But in ur younger days you have a lot of energy, despite this we used to go out daily except when I was on call, and lot of eating out and meeting friends. Begum used to do a lot of things for me besides the usual, she would arrange and type my notes, arrange my lists, proof read my assignments, log my work beside the usual household stuff. Then we had 2 babies one after the other and she became busier than me.
Re: So ladies
Why are ppl possessive in a relationship?
Like how many relationships does one havento go through in order tp he stop being possessive?
Re: So ladies
it goes both ways
if one is a workaholic the other can be too