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i didn't mean that they were, it just you make'em sound like they r. like how nosy they r and how they talk behind ur back, but my bad, sorry if i offended ya'll.
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thing is I personally have a very very big family…and most of them live in the same city as ourselves…and there are some who are known for gossiping…when they talk all that comes out of their mouth is gossip, nothing else.
off course there are some really nice people inthe family too…but its best to tell everyone the same story…makes life easier.
and “meeting through a friend” is the best one…cuz a “friend” can be anyone or anything 
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lol …aur main excuse talaash kar raha tha apni bari k liye:o …
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i have a question about this. what if someone is totally hopeless that they’ll never find any1 to marry..because they dont know any ppl where they live. what do you tell them? i can say that allah swt has made some1 for u already..but thats hardly any consolation…so what do u tell 'em?
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Hey Sara congratz with the rishta! Who's the lucky guy?
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I bet they were just acting surprised 
I actually agree with Afridi786 :yaAllahmujheuthale: . If you are so convinced that people are gonna come up with their own version anyway then why not just be honest? …why not treat it as an occupational hazard of being married and earn an extra hoor in the process?
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LOL!
you’re a typical karachittie…
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i first met him
when i went for an interview for a job right after my bachelors . he kept asking me questions and i kept answering . he had those sea deep eyes and very extra-ordinary face . i never noticed untill he gazed at me and asked that would i accept the offer even if i had to travel .
he was the interviewer 
i had to quit b/e of low salary
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We saw each other in Anatomy, shared germs in Microbiology and fell in love during Clinical Chemistry.
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good question..."dont worry about it"
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i wonder what type of kids you would end up having? 
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lol...good answer!
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We met in heaven, and then i gave her my number, before come to earth :D
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U can always say, "one day I got up in the morning & I have no idea how she/he ended up in my bed with me, thats how I met him/her".
Though us humans are curious to know how did the couple meet, so asking is no harm but I hate when people find it as a topic to back bite.
I usually dont lie & tell the truth how I met my wife, so they can say happily was he working there or romancing ... I dont give a damn people talking though I do believe they shouldn't.
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I think girls worry about this more than boys do, because the Pakistani community gossips so much when it involves a girl, and her reputation is very easily scarred, as is the reputation of parents and other sisters. So whereas the guys just go ahead and tell the truth, consider how the community will talk about your wives/sisters/etc. I think you should tell them a bit, but it's not necessary to go into all the details.
As for questions about the wedding night, Impulse, I think that's a bit different. That's just the curiousity that stems from sex having become such a taboo topic. My younger cousins asked me about it too, "What lines did he use? What did you do? How was it?" etc etc. But I left it all very ambiguous. You are in control of the information, you can choose to reveal as much or as little as you want.
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now...if its a love marriage there are many ways a couple may have met....it could be through a friend, at university, work, in a club, on the bus stop, on a holiday, on the net, on a matrimonial site, marriage agency, speed dating.....or absolutely anywhere.
both the girls and guys family have a right to know where they met....thats agreed....
However, what should someone tell nosy relatives etc?
I mean they usually only ask so they have something to gossip about.....if someone met at uni....they'll say "were they studying or romancing?".....and they will have something bad to say about anywhere/anyhow a person meets.....
alot of people wouldnt want to tell their relatives how they met....cuz no1 likes to be gossiped about.
for this reason , most people just say "we met through a friend/family friend"....
I have myself heard many bored aunties/relatives talk bad about certain people in my family who had love marriages....mainly on how they met etc...and they talk very badly about them and they even make so many enquiries about it....just to find out if the person is telling the truth or not!
I just want to know from married people, what did they tell nosy relatives etc? the truth or did they make something up? did it work?
and for those who are not married...but will soon get married....you will be asked this question too....what will you say to them to shut them up? considering some people keep asking and go around asking everyone (cuz they have nothing better to do than gossip). for example on the wedding day....they would go to ur inlaws family and even ask what the story is from their side!!!
so what would you do?
man i wud just say the darn thing .. is it something like u have to hide? i mean if u 2 met on GS then i pity u fools lol else just tell them wat the hel?
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I dont get it.
If you've met someone and are willing to spend the rest of your life with 'em then why be embarassed to tell people how you two met unless you are embarassed to be with them in the first place
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If you've met someone and are willing to spend the rest of your life with 'em then why be embarassed to tell people how you two met unless you are embarassed to be with them in the first place
^^ Exactly.
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nothing to be ashamed of where/how u 2 met and u should care less what other ppl think or say:o ..........