Re: Six terrible things you can say to a Guy
One scathing remark is all it takes to shut him down, so even while you are in the middle of a serious fight, remember your vocabulary is key. Jesting about his mom, reminding him of an ex, are just some of the terrible things you can ever say to him. And in doing so create lasting scars in your relationship. Below is the list of six awful phrases that turn him red in the face, and need to be done away with.
**2 - ‘I just know you can’t get over her’ **
If you think this is the best way of getting back at him, then think again. Fine, you want to find out a few intimate details about his past life, but just watch out - never force your way through. He shall not take such an intrusion kindly. Furthermore, it’ll only distance you from him, and he might think of you as someone very insecure in relationships. It’s best to leave it at that and save him the discomfort. On many instances you end up reminding him fondly of an ex. So, simply steer clear of the subject. If it is out of bounds, so be it.
so i am curious about this one? the rest of it is pretty good advice. from a guys point of view, are you still uncomfortable at the talk of an ex even if youve been married for years and theres no issues in the relationship? why is this such an out of bounds topic?? id really to understand cuz i know guys freak out about this.
by the way, good thread.