sitting close to your spouse....!

[Exodus]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

Lets just say, before marriage, the guy plain wasn't prepared of what he was truly getting himself into.

[STA]

Re: sitting close to your spouse…!

@Exodus

Lets just say, before marriage, the guy plain wasn’t prepared of what he was getting himself into.

looks like, judgement issue.

[TLK]

Re: sitting close to your spouse…!

@nadz123

SO bfore marriage:

he says, come sit nextto me on sofa, why you sitting so far away from me…and he would get annoyed if i said i didnt want to sit so close…
i would sit on the sofa opposite.

after marriage:

he says why you sitting next to me, there s a whole sofa opposite us, ...…

:halo:

i do wonder about the so-called species of Men.

shadi se pehlay there was no kaamwali who is spying on you. now there is,

[angel25]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

I never sit with my husband when I am at my in laws place because they think it's besharmi...lol

[Exodus]

Re: sitting close to your spouse…!

^ Question is, what is it that you do that makes them feel that way?

[angel25]

Re: sitting close to your spouse…!

@Exodus

^ Question is, what is it that you do that makes them feel that way?

Lol it’s not like we kiss each other or hold hands…it just some desi people thinks that to respect elders, wife should not sit next to her husband especially if FIL or BIL is around..

[Mad_Hatter]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

It's not like you need to ask his permission to sit next to him. Sit on his lap and then see what he says

[Monk]

Re: sitting close to your spouse…!

@nadz123

SO bfore marriage:

he says, come sit nextto me on sofa, why you sitting so far away from me…and he would get annoyed if i said i didnt want to sit so close…
i would sit on the sofa opposite.

after marriage:

he says why you sitting next to me, there s a whole sofa opposite us, ...…

:halo:

i do wonder about the so-called species of Men.

[P_G]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

say to your husband

**
younhe Mausam ki ada dekh ker yaad aaya

kis qadar jald badal jatay hain InssaN jaaNAa

**
" P

[terebina786]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

when we are alone, hes usually playing playsation, and wouldnt notice me even if i sat directly ontop of his head.

I'm sorry I LOLed really loud to this because I pictured it!

[Iconoclast]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

Maybe the sofa you now have is smaller in size than the one you had before? :-/ OR maybe he is developing a severe case of claustrophobia?

Or may be she has gained so much weight after marriage that sofa cannot bear weight of both.

[njgal]

sitting close to your spouse....!

Do either of the two

1. Sit across the room and talk really loud about personal stuff. He'll ask you to move closer

2. Sit on top of him. He'll tell you get off and sit on his side.

[Twinklestar]

sitting close to your spouse....!

He had limited access to you then... Now maybe the charm factor wore off....this is why too much lovey dovey before marriage means less afterwards....it's hard for a lot of folks to accept that things change after marriage.

[TLK]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

actually, to this day. my wife and I dont sit close to each other in front of others, especially elderly family members. I am kind of with Nadz's hubby on this one.

[Hulahoop_Queen]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

OMG, that is so lame and pathetic, to not be able to even sit with each other :S. It was never like that in our family. People need to clean their heads is all i can say. It is not even close to being 'chichoray' or whatever :S I mean, what on earth. I have never even heard of this before and this is like really weird to me.

[paki_rana]

Re: sitting close to your spouse…!

@Afsoon

Maybe the sofa you now have is smaller in size than the one you had before? :-/ OR maybe he is developing a severe case of claustrophobia?

@Hadeel

just like before shadi women are like.. " no baby I don’t want anything.. just you <3 "

and after shadi

“it’s your responsibility to get me (designer) shoes and clothes every other week.. Why did you marry me if you can’t provide?”

:halo:

Good point dude

[icicle1]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

i say u get a divorce. ur stories just sound sad....i mean u married ur cousin, they trapped u in pakistan, and now they're behaving like typical jahil inlaws, ur hubby included. gosh. go back to UK

[Janjua39]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

i say u get a divorce. ur stories just sound sad....i mean u married ur cousin, they trapped u in pakistan, and now they're behaving like typical jahil inlaws, ur hubby included. gosh. go back to UK

like like oh my god.. uknow?

[blessed2006]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

hahahahahahahahaahhahhahahahahaha

yeh tou lateefa ho gaya.

[candy_apple]

Re: sitting close to your spouse....!

Pakistani men need to get over their weirdness about sitting close to their wives in front of family members.

In front of immediate family such as my mom or his parents, sisters etc. I will sit very close to him, even put my head on his shoulder and he usually doesn't mind, although he never initiates sitting like this himself.

In front of other relatives like aunties, uncles, cousins etc. I will usually let him be. HAHA.

Honestly a married couple is a married couple. GET OVER IT!