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*Originally posted by Fayz: *
So what I gather from the replies is that there is room for signing contracts without worrying that it will affect the relationship between relatives. Quite a western mindset but nothing wrong with it.
I will check out Surah Nisa’s translation.
p.s. Miss Mohabbat, can I get yours on my collar.
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first ask yourself if your worth it..:p
erm..can i just ask..what are of psychology are you looking into here?...trust or relationships?
I’m not worth it but I would be obliged if you did the honor
Trust
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*Originally posted by Fayz: *
I’m not worth it but I would be obliged if you did the honor
Trust
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aww chick..dont sell yourself short..im sure u are worth it...
erm...why trust?..what issue in trust do you feel relates to signing legal documents?
I believe if you trust someone, you don't go the legal route.
why do you believe that? has experiance taught you or do you trust too easily?
Surah Nisa has an interesting ayah about how women are encouraged to make whatever contract they want with whichever men they want, for men are indeed greedy. I think the translation was 'greedy'.
:D
A. I'd sign it.. kuch patah nahien waqt ka .. kab niyat badal jai based on their halaaat.
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why do you believe that? has experiance taught you or do you trust too easily?
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..hmm because by the definition of the word 'trust'..you don't need any other official documentation. The word itself is enough to develop an understanding.
The moment you are looking for paper work/signatures..you have crossed the boundry of trust. By the sound of replies above..it seems that it is ok not to trust your father, mother, brother, sister, wife...You can have everything in black and white... without hurting anyone's feelings.
Fayz
my point is
personally i would never ask my brothers or my parents or close extended family or closest friends to sign any legal document and i do trust them blindly more than i trust my ownself
BUT
if they asked me to sign some document, even if my gut feeling says “what! do they not trust me?!?” i’d try to tell myself that maybe they have some other reason, i shudnt think that they dont trust me, and if it makes them feel better i’ll sign it, and yeah some ppl do have a hard time trusting others, that is a fault in them or maybe not, but that doesnt mean jus b/c they have this weakness in their personality i shud care for em less or hold it against em. or maybe they have had some very bad experience in life which has made them like this.
id jus sign the document, get over with it, not think too much abt it k they dont trust me or they have a hard time trusting ppl, and try to put the issue behing n not try to think abt it again.
does that make any sense :rotato:
in business there is no such thing as relatives....i would get it tripple checked by my lawyer...
mom dad and sibings are different
Well said. Yes it made sense. Thanks.
I think sometimes it would be best to offer to sign the document before the other persons even asked.
That way they would be sure of your sincerity, and you wouldnt have any reason to doubt them either.