shy girls or outgoing girls?

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Re: shy girls or outgoing girls?

what if she is way too out going and pretends to be shy :hmmm:

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Well see, here ya gota be smart about choosing your partner then i guess. If she pretends..then divorce papers..j/k. Naa..marriage is about compromise so, whatever Allah has willed for me and who eva for me..i am sure i will make 101% effort to work insha'allah.

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Re: shy girls or outgoing girls?

People are outgoing and shy to varying degrees. Anything to the extreme is a turn off.

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yup

her cheez limit mein he achi lagti hai

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Re: shy girls or outgoing girls?

I prefer outgoing girls my self....

I hope mum wont mind her bahu

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Re: shy girls or outgoing girls?

^ lady jee - u a guy?

Your nick indicates your mum may have bigger issues to worry about? :p

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Re: shy girls or outgoing girls?

50 ,, 50

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Depends on how you define 'shyness' and 'outgoing' social or non social or anti-social.

for some people if a girl is shy then it doesn't mean she is not confident. A girl should be shy, but she should possess self-confidence as well.

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Re: shy girls or outgoing girls?

Reminds me of a quote,

   "Men insist that they don’t mind women succeeding so long as they retain their “femininity”. Yet the qualities that men consider “feminine” timidity, submissiveness, obedience, silliness, and self-debasement—are the very qualities best guaranteed to assure the defeat of even the most gifted aspirant."

I would consider myself outgoing. but I know how to be around elders as well... and make a damm good cup of chai and smile and be polite. there is being respectful, then there is being shy and tongue tied.
but I also know to stand up for myself when I'm surrounded by stupidity...if its get me into trouble..so be it...at least I tried...for MYSELF and if needed for my spouse and family

and I wish more girls would be outgoing and speak up when the are not happy etc. because then they become bitter wives and mothers and the damm cycle keeps going because they had to suppress their feelings and be all shy and ladylike

nothing wrong with being shy and sharmeli.... all are charming. But charming can turn into being a doormat and sadly, many desi women are doormats

there is a happy medium of being outgoing and shy and many if not all women are capable of achieving it, they just aren't given the chance in our society. outgoing girls are just as capable of being good wives as shy ones...if not more capable to deal with obstacles. ALSO...to all those guys who picked the prettier one... looks fade and in the end and maybe for you...they already started

just my two cents, cheers