if there’s a divorce from this person it will automatically come your way , meaning do not choose it for yourself , let god decide wot’s better for u . there must be something better for you than your plans
and where do men find these hot women who want to marry men that are already married? i just get slapped usually. i am also excruciatingly handsome. also, how can someone named rukhsana be hot?! :\
Some rukhsanas over here are parading themselves as Roxannes, does that improve their hotness scale?
OP, pics of this excruciatingly handsome man? PM me if you dont want to share on a public forum.
also keep in mind that sisters and brothers are very caring and they really get hurt or emotional in such situations, so even if they ask you do not get divorced,
you never know the second person you get married to may be worse than him, so do not take such risks
I would listen to your bhai... and then report this @sshat because polygamy is illegal in the UK. No woman should have to bend backward to get a man to love her.. seriously where is the woman's self respect in that???
He prob just did nikah.. in which case wife 2 is technically only his mistress..
The answer to ur question depends on ur particulars situation. If you think you can start your life with another person, then get a divorce. If you thing you want to compromise and stay married then that is a choice you need to make. If you want to follow the islamic way, then it is unto u. But I don't see why you would follow it if your husband doesn't. If he is fair then I might consider staying but like someone said before on the thread… once a baby joins the picture then you might not have his attend=sion anymore. And the other lady he married will have more control over the situation.
Also, you married him because of his looks and now he married someone for their looks. Plus, he was forced into marrying you so it was a bit wrong done to him to. He should have just refused to marry you and saved you all this trouble.
I would leave my husband if he got another wife. I would not want my children to have a broken home… where their father is missing half the time. Hubby is already not fair towards me and spends most his time at his parents' house. So I can't even imagine how horrible it would be if he got another wife and children.
Well OP...i feel for ya. Firstly..in my opinion..your husband DO have a right to get second wife. However, the best thing would be to give it sometime..to see if ya're relationship with your husband going to work. And if ya go through and see lots of nasty fights and issues..then ya decide what ya wanna do.