She got married and left me ...wow

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

what do you want us to say? Will she come back if we tell her to? or will you accept the reality more easily if we say get over it? this is life bro, it hurts but it for a reason.. think about it this way.. everything happens for a reason, my only suggestion is to pray to Allah to give you sabar and inshaAllah you will see the benefits of this whole situation.

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

She wasn't meant for you. Hang out with some friends, anything to distract you. Wish her luck and start meeting other people.

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

Date her sister.

Re: She got married and left me …wow

Well…that should have given you a clue…

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

Pinno motai - whos ankles were fab enough to get you all aflutter?

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

Stuff happens my friend. What ever happens, happens for a reason. God reveals its wisdom in mysterious ways. What happened was for the greater good. So be thankful for future is brighter and optimistic. If she hurt you, you deserved better. I know its easier said than done but try your luck elsewhere. May be you havent met the perfect woman yet. God Bless.
- Gamma

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

Go see a doctor. it's never too late.

Re: She got married and left me …wow

Take a long holidays somewhere very very far from there (i mean from where you live) and meet lots of people on that trip, little flirt may help build your ego back…but no more than flirt:nono: ok…with time you will heal:insha:
best wishes!

Re: She got married and left me …wow

A few questions to just ask yourself and think about as you pine away for your lovely mistress.

  1. Did you promiss to marry her?

  2. Did you DO things with her that assured her that your “love” for her was secure and absolute?

  3. Did you ever hit on another girl? While you were with her and also before? Were you a player?

  4. Are you a mother’s boy?

  5. Did you guys not agree on a lot of things that you might want to hammer out as a married couple - i.e. who does the cooking, who brings home a paycheck, can she have hobbies, can she do what she wants outside whenever she wants to, etc?

  6. Did you make time for her?

  7. Did you listen to her problems? Her concerns?

  8. Do you know details about her? Like when is her birthday? What color does she like? What kind of things does she like to get in gifts? What makes her happy, etc?

  9. Most importantly, do you have a job? A well-paying job that you can sustain a family on? Would you be in a position to buy a house or would you be living with your parents still? Are you responsible and pay bills on time and such things that would indicate you’ll be a good provider?

And if you fall short on all this, well then, be happy that you’re not married to her, cuz your life would royally suck :k:

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

^ and hers would too if she was like pcg :p

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

Pyari gudia:

Honestly, I have an answer for every q's of yours. Let me tell you, what kind of relationship I had with her...before falling in love we went out for a year or so., it wasn’t like Love at first sight. We did enjoy each other’s company, we hung out and stuff. Idea of moving ahead was mutual, even though, she was older than me, And only thing I can think off is probably, that was her time...as per job and education, Allhamdolilah I have finished my education, have worked for fortune 500 companies and Yes i do have money to buy couple of houses! I guess sounds everything was going right for me!!! But in btw somewhere.... something happened and ...I don’t have words to explain...(its a long story)
Bottom line is, I know I will get over it. And I did really feel good to be here, because a lot of sensible ppl are hanging' out here.

As per, going out chilling and stuff, i m thinking of going for an Umrah, probably it can give me a peace of mind, and i can pray for her and myself...

What you think guys?

Re: She got married and left me …wow

well love can swallow too…if the girl is right..or the price is right…or could be both..

Re: She got married and left me …wow

^ u r so mean :hehe:

Re: She got married and left me …wow

buss kya karein sur..zamanaey ney mean hii bana diya hai :bummer:

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

tobah.. kitnay dukhray hai app kay lussi ji?

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

kahan sey shurroh karoon ...kahan pey khatam karoon...

Re: She got married and left me …wow

As a punishment to ur not holding the girl - fill out this ^ online survey!

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

I would refer you to two ladder theory. Google it. You were bumped to a Friend Ladder. If its after a year, you should consider yourself lucky - it didn't happen after you got married.

Re: She got married and left me ...wow

Everything happens for a reason.....

sorry.