Re: Shaadi ke Baad
ummmmm........................NO!
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Salamz, Let me clear the isse, After Marriage a couple should pass time with understanding, Love, Spirit and passion for each other and express their love
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The promises and love expression what they did before marriage should be continue in practical after marriage or babbies.
We get life once, and we should pass it at our best. I dont think so it is a big deal or it is not possible. We should atleast try and pry Allah to sort the things out.
Wish you all best of luck for your marriage lives :)
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main ne kaha hai k shadi karo:vivo:
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i think aap ki kisi ne ghalat bataya hai yaa aap ne jis couple ki observation ki hai wo aisa ho ga , but in my point of view shadi k baad hi entertaining and full of energy life start hoti hai, weekends pe wife k saath bacho.n k saath ser sapata and bahar khana aur agar aap sochien tu in sab ka apna hi ek maza hai aur baqi rahi rotian pakana bachay sanbhalana tu i think ye ek achi maa aur ek achi biwi ka farz hai , aur kaam karna ek achay husband ka farz hai kuch kaam aur kuch araam kuch responsiblities and kuch moj masti ye sab shadi k baad hota hai agar koi samjhay tu haa.n jahan tak shadi se pehlay ghanto baat karnay ka taluq hai, look shadi se pehlay phone per hi ziyada baat hoti hai mulaqaat kam hoti hai, lekin shadi k baad tu roz hi mulaqat hoti hai na tu bila waja phone per time zaya karne ki kiya zaroorat hai time bhi aur paisay bhi , amnay samnay beth kar jo baat ho jati hai, I DONT THINK SHADI K BAAD LIFE BORING HOTI HAI i think SHADI K BAAD HI TU LIFE START HOTI HAI pehlay tu bus idhar udhar bhatak rahay hotay hien hum , ALLAH BLESS ALL MARIED COUPLES
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yeh sawal tha ya statement?
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**Kaanch: **I totally agree with you, life gets very boring after marriage. The best thing to do is dont get married early.Hehehehe, jis ko zada shauk hai rotiyaan banane ki usay shadi mubarak ho :p On a serious note mujhe khana banana hi nahin ata, bechara lagta hai usay mujhe bana ker dena parhay ga :p just kidding. Seekh loon gi abhi bara time hai
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Kaanch: **I totally agree with you, life gets very boring after marriage. The best thing to do is dont get married early.Hehehehe, jis ko zada shauk hai rotiyaan banane ki usay shadi mubarak ho :p On a serious note mujhe khana banana hi nahin ata, bechara lagta hai usay mujhe bana ker dena parhay ga :p just kidding. Seekh loon gi abhi bara time hai**
yani shadi key baad rotiaan pakaney ka pakka irada hai :D
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lol nahin woh to bas kehna ki baat hai:p aisi roti banao gi ke ainda naam na le :p
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If the couple is boring then the marriage will be boring. :D
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…dont say all this, i’m getting married soon. 
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now THAT is GOOD enuff reason NOT to get married…
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dont worry go ahead :k:
ye aap dono per hai k how u mix taste in ur life
kuch bhi boring nahi hota
bus yaad rakhna jo bhi kaam karo khushi se karna God bless you 
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For some people, the only thing that makes them interesting IS their love life, the constant crushes, and dramas, intrigues, and secrets, and phone calls, etc. Once that has settled down, they have nothing else about them that is interesting, which is why they become a boring couple.
Also, consider that though they seem boring to you on the outside, after marriage they have interest mostly in each other, and you don't see that as an outsider.
As for the routines, they are easy enough to break. The great richness in marriage is that you have someone to share your life with, so compromise is not something bad, it's something that brings you together. If you don't want that, then marriage is not for you.
Congrats, Orpheus!
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i think aap ki kisi ne ghalat bataya hai yaa aap ne jis couple ki observation ki hai wo aisa ho ga , but in my point of view shadi k baad hi entertaining and full of energy life start hoti hai, weekends pe wife k saath bacho.n k saath ser sapata and bahar khana aur agar aap sochien tu in sab ka apna hi ek maza hai aur baqi rahi rotian pakana bachay sanbhalana tu i think ye ek achi maa aur ek achi biwi ka farz hai , aur kaam karna ek achay husband ka farz hai kuch kaam aur kuch araam kuch responsiblities and kuch moj masti ye sab shadi k baad hota hai agar koi samjhay tu haa.n jahan tak shadi se pehlay ghanto baat karnay ka taluq hai, look shadi se pehlay phone per hi ziyada baat hoti hai mulaqaat kam hoti hai, lekin shadi k baad tu roz hi mulaqat hoti hai na tu bila waja phone per time zaya karne ki kiya zaroorat hai time bhi aur paisay bhi , amnay samnay beth kar jo baat ho jati hai, I DONT THINK SHADI K BAAD LIFE BORING HOTI HAI i think SHADI K BAAD HI TU LIFE START HOTI HAI pehlay tu bus idhar udhar bhatak rahay hotay hien hum , ALLAH BLESS ALL MARIED COUPLES
be honest how many people around u live a life like that
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The promises and love expression what they did before marriage should be continue in practical after marriage or babbies. We get life once, and we should pass it at our best. I dont think so it is a big deal or it is not possible. We should atleast try and pry Allah to sort the things out. Wish you all best of luck for your marriage lives :)
kaash aisa aap ke siwa koi aur bhi sochta
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be honest how many people around u live a life like that
honestly speaking 70% Good and very enthusiasting couples
and 30% u can say boring but actually they are not boring they have not good understanding between them
shadi bohat nazuk aur sacha bandhan hai thori si ghaflat se mamla oolajh jata hai lekin agar aap ek doosray ko samajh kar sabar say aur ek doosray ka khial rakh kar is rishtay ko nibhayien tu itna sakoon aap ko kahien nahi milta siwaye apnay better half k
and last thing being a Muslim its necessary so shadi karni tu hai is liye agar khushi say ki jaye aur uss ko achay tareeqay say nibhaya bhi jaye I think we can please our God and get Blessings of God :)
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Marriage gets boring when couples stop putting effort. They start taking each other for granted and find fulfillment through other means. We are all humans and can go through this, but I feel if we make a conscious effort to overcome negatives, we can keep our marriages alive. Marriages need to be "oiled" and worked on otherwise they become stagnant. It is not a Bollywood movie show, it's reality. I totally agree with Sahar02.