I don’t think I’ve ever experienced a desi/Muslim guy telling me a sexual joke. They might say such jokes in the presence of other guys, but not to me or any other girl that I know of.
Just tell him you don’t like it and to share those jokes with other guys, not with you.
I think you’re thinking about it the right way. Respect in a relationship is different from physical attraction and light hearted jokes. You are probably uncomfortable because it is new to you.
If you think that the jokes he makes are something you shouldn’t have a problem with; i.e. they are normal and he is attracted to you (which is a good thing lol), then you can probably give yourself some time to grow ok with those jokes.
You can ask him to cut them down a little and follow your level of comfort, but not entirely cut it all out, IF you’d want that in your relationship in the future.
I don’t think “I am a guy” justifies that. We are not slaves to our biology/socialization once we realize it.
I don’t understand what the fuss is about. You two are in a relationship, he tells you jokes that you consider dirty. If you are not comfortable with it, just tell him so and I am sure he will be considerate enough. Pretty much everybody is. You can’t just laugh at his jokes and then expect him not to tell you any more. Thats his thing, his mojo, and its clearly working. So its a win-win.
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some men are like that not all of them…if you don’t liek it why don’t you tell him.
I personally don’t like sunch jokes, mayber once in a while could be ok dependin gon situation etc, lakin all the time or even ,ost of the time, would get on my nerves..
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