SELFISH stupid cow of a ''friend'' WHAT the HELL is the point of a DOLKI!!!!

[Reha]

@MixedBeauty

I have such a stupid SELFISH cow of a friend, thats not even enough words to describe HER! she has her STUPID dolki on the same day as my boyfriends birthday. I told her STRAIGHT up im not coming because i would never miss his birthday for the world. The selfish ignorant cow that she is, Turns around and says ‘’ its nice to know you would rather go OUT than come to MY dolki, You can come to my dolki then go out with your boyfriend.‘’ ERMMM yes mum what ever you say! Is she for real?!?!?!

Then i asked her when her wedding dates are, Mehndi wedding and walima are a WEEK apart!! She lives 3 hrs away frm me, And i work. I only get about 5weeks holiday frm work. Why the hell am i gonna book like 3 weeks off to go to her UNPLANNED rushed last minute wedding?! Im fuming, I said i will come to your mehndi and wedding, I cant come to your walima i am sorry.

Then she starts being all funny again. Ok i know shes stressed out and what not, But not really because she planned this wedding in a month, to a guy shes only been going out with for 5 months. So she expects ME to not see MY boyfriend on his birthday even tho ive been with him for 2 years. Shes just a jealous cow and its always me me me. anytime i do ANYTHING for my boyfriend she puts a downer on it.

Ok im just so angry, I know im ranting, But my main question is, Should i even bother going to her wedding now? Shes got on my last nerve. shes just so bloody rude, ITS A DOLKI DARLING, YOU DONT EVEN HAVE TO HAVE A DOLKI! i have never been to a dolki only my uncles, I have never been to a mehndi wedding and walima all 3 of them i would only go to 1 or 2. only 3 i’ve been to is only my uncles.

I would understand if it was her wedding, But its a dolki. Its nothing.
right im done.

She is right. Its her wedding, not yours. She gets to decide when to have her dholki according her schedule and her preference. Not yours. If she decided to have it on your boyfriend’s birthday, she isnt being selfish at all. This is the one of the few times in her life she will get to be selfish and its okay.

Her wedding is about HER…not you.

Your boyfriend is probably a big boy now and will understand if you are not able to be with him on the DAY OF his birthday. He isnt 4. You can celebrate it before or after you get back easily.

MB, I think there is more to this then meets the eye. I know if my friend’s dholki was even on my very own birthday I wouldnt mind being there for her one bit.