Re: Seedhi....
How can someone with the nick BombShellBabe be seedhi??
Un ko kahna: behtar seedhi kih kubRi ya TeRi!
Re: Seedhi....
I have been betrayed already. They say that I trust people too soon in sharing my personal matters because I have a clean heart. The truth is people can talk behind my back and make an entertainment gossip out of my situation. I have stopped sharing things with anybody now except couple of close friends. Lakin seedhi loog aqal se kum sochtay hain! I want to use my aqal more than just saying whatever I want without judging the other person. I noramlly dont judge people but I should to keep myself protective. Allah is always there with us!
Then here is a good advice for you that if U want to live a successful life then never ever share ur very personnel matterswith any one else specially so called friends. I have very few friends and we are friends for more than 10 years thats a very long period of time and even then we never shared very personnel matters to each other and I think this might be the reason that we are still very good friends. Trusting a person is some thing else and sharing ur problems with them is totally different. So whether u trust some one or not dont share those matters which if openly discussed may create problems for u.
Re: Seedhi....
I think "seedhi" can be interpreted in several ways. It can be taken to mean someone who is naive and very trusting of people/situations. It could mean that you're not into playing games/being manipulative. I think it can even mean a more down-to-earth personality. On one hand you're asking us what we think the word means in connection to YOU......and on the other hand, you're telling us in another post what you think people mean when you are called "seedhi....(example: post # 19)...so once again, you've answered your own question.
You think that people find you seedhi because you're too trusting of others. We don't know you in person, so we can't comment about that. The only thing that we can base our opinions on are your posts. And I'll be honest, I do see a bit of "seedha-pan" in your posts. I think that you get toooooooooo excited about your ideas.....that you rush to express them WITHOUT fully considering how they'll be viewed/interpreted. And that happens to all of us...I've been guilty of that as well...but some do it more often than others and I think that it's something that improves over time. Just slow down a bit and consider various angles/how you'll be viewed.....before expressing yourself. I think that this would also help you assess the situation better in your personal interactions....allowing you to better determine how much you should reveal/trust the other person. Also, actions speak louder than words. If their words and actions don't match up...then they can't be trusted. Observe people over a time period before rushing to trust them.
Re: Seedhi....
I think "seedhi" can be interpreted in several ways. It can be taken to mean someone who is naive and very trusting of people/situations. It could mean that you're not into playing games/being manipulative. I think it can even mean a more down-to-earth personality. On one hand you're asking us what we think the word means in connection to YOU......and on the other hand, you're telling us in another post what you think people mean when you are called "seedhi....(example: post # 19)...so once again, you've answered your own question.
You think that people find you seedhi because you're too trusting of others. We don't know you in person, so we can't comment about that. The only thing that we can base our opinions on are your posts. And I'll be honest, I do see a bit of "seedha-pan" in your posts. I think that you get toooooooooo excited about your ideas.....that you rush to express them WITHOUT fully considering how they'll be viewed/interpreted. And that happens to all of us...I've been guilty of that as well...but some do it more often than others and I think that it's something that improves over time. Just slow down a bit and consider various angles/how you'll be viewed.....before expressing yourself. I think that this would also help you assess the situation better in your personal interactions....allowing you to better determine how much you should reveal/trust the other person. Also, actions speak louder than words. If their words and actions don't match up...then they can't be trusted. Observe people over a time period before rushing to trust them.
Your a very smart candy I MUST ADMIT!!!.. Thanks for your suggestions.