Same Sex Relationships In SA Schools

[mercenary2k]

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^^ Of course. My_Secret and Croquet live in a fantasy world if they think that men are not attracted to this.

[K337]

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@My_SeCrEt

Saudi Daily Discusses the Phenomenon of Same-Sex Relationships in Some Saudi High Schools and Colleges
*The Saudi daily Arab News recently reported on the phenomenon of lesbian relationships among students in some Saudi high schools and colleges. *
*The following is the full text of the article as it appeared on the Arab News English website: [1]](http://memri.org/bin/articles.cgi?Page=archives&Area=sd&ID=SP149607#_edn1) *

Saudi Student: “Administration at Colleges Do Carry Out Random Inspections to Prevent Such Behavior From Happening”

"In a scene that many would describe as disgusting and contrary to the religious and cultural traditions of the Kingdom, sitting intimately in a corner of a classroom at a high school in Abha is Fawziya and Uhoud - two young female ‘lovers.’
"The two girls speak romantically and exchange kisses in a relationship that is forbidden in Islam. Fawziya is in the final year of high school. She is engaged to a man and will be getting married the summer after graduation.
"‘I’m not bothered by what people at school say about me. I’m just looking for an emotional relationship and I found that in Uhoud,’ said Fawziya, adding that having love and feeling is the key to life.
"‘My relationship with my family isn’t very good and I don’t get the love and attention that I should be getting from them. My family is very disconnected and there are a lot of family problems,’ she said, adding that she is not paying much attention to her coming marriage. Rather she says her attention is fixed on Uhoud.
"Uhoud, on the other hand, feels similarly and also pays very little attention to other students who frown at her relationship with Fawziya.
"Fawziya and Uhoud’s affair is not an isolated one. There are other girls involved in similar romances. Reem and Nura are one such couple, whose relationship began with a smile and an exchange of gifts. The relationship grew stronger and now both find it difficult to separate from each other. Their love for each other is so intense that Nura cried for Reem just before the beginning of the midterm seven-day school holidays.
"There are other examples of such relationships blooming behind the walls of schools run by the Education Ministry. Sawsan Al-Ghamdi, a college student, said that the college squares, where students take breaks, have ‘lovers’ corners’ where girls kiss and hug each other.
“‘What is surprising is that there was a married girl in her seventh month of pregnancy who was pursuing other girls to satisfy her sexual needs. Administration at colleges do carry out random inspections to prevent such behavior from happening,’ said Al-Ghamdi.”

Saudi Student: “I Blame a Lack of Awareness Among Families Toward Their Daughters”
"Aisha Al-Qahtani, a student of Arabic language at the College of Education in Abha, said that she feels shocked at what she sees sometimes happening in colleges. Al-Qahtani said that some relationships develop into becoming very intimate. ‘I blame a lack of awareness among families toward their daughters,’ she said.
“Such relationships are strongly objected to, especially by students from religious backgrounds. Religiously observant students refuse to accept that sort of behavior. When they see couples sitting intimately together they disturb them by talking to them, giving them positive advice and letting them know that such behavior is wrong.”
Education Department Source: “The Ministry Has Not Outlined Punishment for Students Who Are Caught in Such Relationships”
"An Asir Education Department source said that the ministry has not outlined punishment for students who are caught in such relationships and added that the problem is not a new one and that it exists in other countries as well.
“‘A student who is not receiving enough love and care from her family tends to look for love in other students. At first she will admire a girl’s clothes or living standards. After that the relationship deepens and they exchange gifts and perfume to express their admiration for each other,’ she said.”

Saudi Specialist: “Such Girls Need Help and Treatment”
"Latifa Saleh, a social specialist in Abha, has received at least 10 cases involving girls having strong feelings for other girls. In a phone interview with Arab News, she said that same gender relationships are quite old and that they had become isolated to recently resurface again.
"‘Families do not pay enough attention to their daughters. Such girls need help and treatment. This is a growing problem that we are now seeing in our schools and colleges,’ she said, adding that school administrators need to address the problem and speak to individuals involved. ‘If that doesn’t work, then they should be transferred to a specialist for treatment.’
"Woman preacher Layla Mahran said that such relationships can potentially develop further and become physically intimate. ‘They are against Islam and considered to be sexually perverse. The relationship between a man and a woman is considered normal and I am talking about marriage here because that is part of human nature. The relationship between a man and a man or a woman and a woman is frowned upon by our religion and considered a big sin.’
“Mahran added that the problem is beginning to spread and said that she knows of a teacher who resigned because she was against some of the stuff that was happening inside the high school where she worked.”
http://memri.org/bin/articles.cgi?Page=archives&Area=sd&ID=SP149607**

main ne kaha tha na …

[decent_Felow]

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Kia kaha tha ..................

[Light_Bearer]

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@Croquet

1.Personal experiences. I have seen many products of segregated society and none of them to my knowledge turned towards homosexuality.

It's a taboo in Islamic culture I doubt if anybody is indulging will be confessing.

@Croquet

1. If segregation was the cause then homo would only emerge in segregated society.

Segragation is not the only cause but segragation can increase the need/tendencies for example these things are very common in male and female jails.

@Croquet

1. The article talks about married and pregnant women displaying homosexual behaviour. So i dont think suppresion is causing it.

I never heard of it so I am going to keep quiet on this one.

@Croquet

1. Early marriages i have heard (i admit hear say) are common place in SA so its not depreviation of opposite gender which causes the swing.

Early marriages are preffered but the ground reality is that in Arabs the trend has declined a lot mainly due to the large dowries men have to pay to get married and you must be aware that the masses in SA are not wealthy people. So most of the young guys are ready to take wives from other countries as Egypt, Syria, India or maybe Jordan.

@Croquet

1. This is totally personal and doesn't have to be taken into argument if you are non muslim. Segregated environment is encouraged by islam, granted early marriages are encouraged as well. So if it was country like Pakistan i could see the possibility of suppression causing the sexual preferrence but in SA that is not the case so i dont think that's segregated environment is the reason.

Can you rephrase it I cannot understand what you are trying to say.

[underthedome]

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@Vedic_Intellect

i dint include it into this thread.. you girlsl were fighting over it with merc.. im just reinforcing his statement that MOST GUYS FIND IT HOT !!

YOU.. think its gross.. I don’t !!! You can call me a pervert all you want but dammit everytime I see 2 hotties make out in a strip club IM TIPPING THEM BIG AND NO1 CAN STOP ME !! lol..

MySecret, Im not blaming allah for it.. im saying dont call me gross and blame me..if any1s to blame its him.. bcoz its not under my control that i find this hot.. the ‘guy’ in my pants finds it hot.. and allah designed him.. i didn’t.. and my brain has no control over him..

Clearly it’s time for another installment of 'Heros of Humanity".

[My_SeCrEt]

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@Vedic_Intellect

I wish I didn't 'indirectly' support hot girls making out...BUT.. as I told you.. my brain does not control the guy in my pants.. if I like it... I like it.. and so is the case with most guys out there so if I'm a 'pervert' (for liking college girls gone wild), a very high percentage of guys out there are perverts too.

stop repeating the same thing over and over again..seriously..dont go into detail about the guy in your pants..and dont even start on mullahs..because not everything is the way it seems..and some of them arnt the best people on earth..a person does not have to be a mullah to be a certain way..religious wise i mean..i just dont think that you can justify your obscure behavior by saying even a mullah does the same thing..or umm reacts the same way...urgh...this is becoming too gross now

[Croquet]

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@Light_Bearer

It's a taboo in Islamic culture I doubt if anybody is indulging will be confessing.

Its hard to miss it dont you think when you are growing up in that culture. These things can hardly be kept hushed.

@Light_Bearer

Segragation is not the only cause but segragation can increase the need/tendencies for example these things are very common in male and female jails.

Exactly, it might increase it but the tendency is born out of something else and i am not sure what that is.

@Light_Bearer

I never heard of it so I am going to keep quiet on this one.

"'What is surprising is that there was a married girl in her seventh month of pregnancy who was pursuing other girls to satisfy her sexual needs. Administration at colleges do carry out random inspections to prevent such behavior from happening,' said Al-Ghamdi."
Read the article its all there and some of the lesbians are even engaged or comitted.

@Light_Bearer

Early marriages are preffered but the ground reality is that in Arabs the trend has declined a lot mainly due to the large dowries men have to pay to get married and you must be aware that the masses in SA are not wealthy people. So most of the young guys are ready to take wives from other countries as Egypt, Syria, India or maybe Jordan.

I am hearing this for first time, i thought young marriages were the rage in SA.

@Light_Bearer

Can you rephrase it I cannot understand what you are trying to say.

In a nutshell, the homosexuality has existed for many years, in segregated and non segregated societies. Evidently more so in liberal societies (in my opinion one can always argue it was hushed in segregated society). And i dont think that modernising the environment will reduce or even decrease the trend.

[PyariCgudia]

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I don't know if its necessarily existed more in liberal societies, or if it was just more openly practiced and discussed in liberal societies.

[PyariCgudia]

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Wait. What does girl-girl action making guys hot have ANYTHING to do with lesbianism in SA?

[Mr_Fraudia]

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I can not believe that such stuff happens in KSA girls schools. send me proof to confirm.

[Mr_Fraudia]

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DVD please i dont have a VCR anymore

[AQ]

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^

[Mr_Fraudia]

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accha bhai vcr khareed lain gaye borrow kar laen gaye aaap proof toh bhejain

[Croquet]

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school students. most likely underage girls. Me sees a can of worms.

[Mr_Fraudia]

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school students. most likely underage girls.

lets just focus on seniors who hve turned 18 then

Me sees a can of worms.

yummie, got a can opener..
ries to remember recipe from a man a can a plan...

[Croquet]

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@Fraudz

lets just focus on seniors who hve turned 18 then

[Mr_Fraudia]

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@Croquet

dont hit your head, sometimes the obvious solution stares us in the face and we dont see it. dil chota na karo.

[Croquet]

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i wish your wife was a member on this forum.

[PyariCgudia]

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dont hit your head, sometimes the obvious solution stares us in the face and we dont see it. dil chota na karo.

Fraudia, I fell off my chair again laughing.

[Mr_Fraudia]

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i wish your wife was a member on this forum.

she is, but not very active.
woh bhi tang aa gayee hai and has given up on trying to sort me out.
once a frat rat, always a frat rat