salience in a relationship

[parissenoor]

Re: salience in a relationship

@WitchDr

I don't agree. You are attributing happiness to changing the other person into a form you want to see him/her in. To me, the charm of a relationship is not in the similarities between you and the other person but in the differences.

Your POV is a bit narrow-minded. You already have a strong notion how a relationship should be. Other people may not necessarily agree with your POV. I think, putting too much emphasis on harmony, agreement, mutual understanding will lead to unhappiness in a relationship.

so people looking for harmony, agreement and mutual understanding should not look for marriage?
friendship is just it, don't spoil it with lower feelings (lust):D