Yes, I do LOVE my mother in law and its not such a hard concept. In my family mother in laws are prized, well more like respected but respected because we love them.Love them sincerely. We try our hardest to form a bond with them like they are our own mothers. It was so cute when both my chaachas wives set up a special room in their house for their inlaws who were coming back from a month long visit to Pak and fought over who keeps them at their place. They had new sheets, flowers, a nice dresser and side tables and a Quran by the bed. Nicely done because they truly had a bond and love for them. Haha at Mabrook. My mother in law is the best. She has not asked about children from me for the year I have been married because she knows when the time is right, it will come. Plus I am not ready for children. Sure I will be a good mother IA and if it happened now I would do well but honestly I would rather wait till I am done with my masters degree I am pursuing and get a decent job and move closer to my family.(all won’t be possible until a long time from now) As for everyone else, thanks soo much for your suggestions. I love some of them. Perhaps I will get her a nice sweater, a purse with some nice things in there for her and maybe a picture frame of my hubby and I at our wedding since she could not attend. Now I have to think of my bhabi. She already has a list of thing she says she needs, not wants..haha..Love you all..thanks, I will think it over more.