Running in to an ex...

[Khumar]

Re: Running in to an ex…

depends on how the relationship ended, and how long it’s been, and how you are with each other now. if things are still sour, then best to not go. even 3 can be awkward. if you are the status of acquaintances now, then no harm in saying hi, hello etc.

or, go and show that you don’t give a damn if the ex is there or not. you’re there to live your life and he/she doesn’t dictate it.

[partyslims]

Re: Running in to an ex…

@Syraa

Depends how the relationship ended, if there was a mutual understanding and the breakup wasn’t messy then I’d go for option 2. If the breakup was a mess then I’d probably go for 3 just to avoid an uncomfortable atmosphere.

This.

[Reha]

Re: Running in to an ex…

@Sehrysh

So let’s say you’re invited to a party and you know your ex is going to be there. Do you:

1. Decline the invitation and therefore avoid sharing the same air as your ex, or

2. Be mature and go up to your ex at the party and exchange pleasantries, or

3. Spend the entire night at the party avoiding the ex - I.e. Walking the other way when you see him/her coming towards you or just ignoring them and pretending like they don’t exist.

Your answer is below

@Gina

Dress-up your best, look drop-dead-gorgeous and attend the event!

Not going means you’re still pining…

Going and looking drab will make you feel bad…

So go and look HOT

[Decent_6Chora]

Re: Running in to an ex…

tu dulhan ban ker hee chalyee jaoo lerkyoon …

[wine]

Re: Running in to an ex…

I will flirt, emotional talk to make her turn “on” … wait for her at the back door, .. take to my place or some hotel..and spend a classy night after a long time. :k:

Now thinking, when i will get the chance … please pray.

[MIAinVA]

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Go all glammed up.

You should dress up and look hot for any party/event… ex or no ex, husband or no husband … thats my number one rule
The more grumpy I am, the more glammed up I get and its a HUGE confidence booster too.
For makeup tips, consult youtube ladies.

[fat_spartan]

Re: Running in to an ex…

@Sehrysh

So let’s say you’re invited to a party and you know your ex is going to be there. Do you:

1. Decline the invitation and therefore avoid sharing the same air as your ex, or

2. Be mature and go up to your ex at the party and exchange pleasantries, or

3. Spend the entire night at the party avoiding the ex - I.e. Walking the other way when you see him/her coming towards you or just ignoring them and pretending like they don’t exist.

Almost all of the parties I’ve been to recently are segregated, so it wouldn’t make any difference whether an ex was there or not.

[TLK]

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On a sinilar note, people should be careful when sending out invitations. If we know 2 people who were married once and now ex of each other, we will never invite both of them to a same party, even if both of them are still our good friends individually. We will invite one person and call the other person to let him or her know that why we did not send him/her an invitation.

[wine]

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@MIAinVA

Go all glammed up.

You should dress up and look hot for any party/event… ex or no ex, husband or no husband … thats my number one rule
The more grumpy I am, the more glammed up I get and its a HUGE confidence booster too.
For makeup tips, consult youtube ladies.

some pointers..

high heels for ladies over 5.5 feet is perfect, less then this looks slutty
if you don’t have more then average chest, then eat one kg “imbli” daily.
it never hurts to show little bit of skin. :k:

..and lady here is the pearl, shalwar kurta is a big turn on for desi guys in west. Stick to it.

[MIAinVA]

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^I’m talking about looking hot, not looking like a wannabe aunty

FYI, we can look hot in shalwar kameez too, as long as its not all cham cham kaam wali shudders

[wine]

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@MIAinVA

^I’m talking about looking hot, not looking like an aunty

You know when a women look the most hottest and beautiful in her whole lifetime ?
That is a transition period from being girl to a women. So enjoy becoming a aunt, if you are not already…

[MIAinVA]

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^Errmm… ooookay, thanks for educating me

[Dania]

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@Gina

Dress-up your best, look drop-dead-gorgeous and attend the event!

totally agree :k:

[Gina]

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Adding-on to my initial post..

Dress-up your best, look drop-dead gorgeous AND walk-in with someone as stunning (opposite gender)!

[system]

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@Syraa

Depends how the relationship ended, if there was a mutual understanding and the breakup wasn’t messy then I’d go for option 2. If the breakup was a mess then I’d probably go for 3 just to avoid an uncomfortable atmosphere.

++!

[zobia]

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you dont need to see every stranger passing by you. who is gone is gone. it doesn’t matter who dumped who cuz our past is their to make our future better not to make it miserable.