thats why if someone is going for arrange marriage, "checking out" guy or girl should be informal. No need for guys's mom/sisters/relatives to visit girl's place 1000 times to stuff their tummies with samosey, pakorey, methiee only to reject the girl later on.
question for the girls: would you reject a proposal if the guys sister would have some sort of mental and/or physical handicap, which would mean he would be the caretaker for the rest of her life? (this is different then taking care of ur mil)
question for the girls: would you reject a proposal if the guys sister would have some sort of mental and/or physical handicap, which would mean he would be the caretaker for the rest of her life? (this is different then taking care of ur mil)
No i wouldnt. Because Allah give you responsibilities he knows you are capable of handling. So i wl take it like that and who knows if you get married in a perfectly healthy family but sooner or later something happens to either one of them? Then what?
No i wouldnt. Because Allah give you responsibilities he knows you are capable of handling. So i wl take it like that and who knows if you get married in a perfectly healthy family but sooner or later something happens to either one of them? Then what?
then obviously you dont have a choice. now you do have a choice...
And what ur saying about us being capable of handling it, my question was more if you look at a proposal wud this be a minuspoint? these days rishta is almost same a as doing business...
so, it's perfectly find to reject a guy based on his income, education etc but it's a big deal to reject a girl b/c of her looks?? why?
before you go on to say income, education play a major role in marriage but so do looks, attraction is very important
if a guy/family wants a girl with pale skin, no glasses, slim etc then why not
then obviously you dont have a choice. now you do have a choice...
And what ur saying about us being capable of handling it, my question was more if you look at a proposal wud this be a minuspoint? these days rishta is almost same a as doing business...
It wud be a minus but not worth loosing out on the rishta if everything else was fine.