O dear, you should totally make a video tutorial of that.
Specially when you are proving "I think my behind smells fresh" make sure you have atleast 5-6 people sniffing it and smiling and giving thumbs up for 3 to 5 min so we know they arent holding their breath.
Or otherwise you can put your head down between your ahm and sniff yourself for few min as well. Trust it, that video will be a hit.
Otherwise, as you said it to LP: “Talk is Cheap”
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A lot of the guys in our country cant afford to carry the moist wipes and liquid soap to keep their arses fresh n sheet. The just rely on the good ol Gheesi Maneuver:
I don’t see guys with those habits having trouble getting married here. There’s nothing wrong about want someone with Islamic values (or whatever ones’ values are for that matter). If someone’s drinking, drug use, lack of Islamic values are a deal breaker for someone, nothing wrong with that.
From our circles, the people who would be considered rishta material would be those with Islamic values, decent family, financially stable (or on the path to it - this apply especially to the men).
Actually pretty much every marriage that I know of that profile (religious & professional man) is alive (so to speak) and well. Sure there might be the odd one here or there that ends in divorce due to incompatibility, in law issues etc. but for the most part they’re doing well (to an outside observer). These men have already grown up in this environment and chose to practice religion along with excelling in their professions.
You’ve told me about 4 guys to prove your point, one who is not even in the Montreal region. You know nothing of me or what roots I may or may not have in Montreal but I know quite a few people from multiple areas in Montreal. While I do know of a handful of divorces that have taken place, it is certainly not the norm. I don’t know who your SIL is but I’m guessing she has another nephew who got married out of university with great qualifications, divorced a few later and is married again.
@Bobby1 since you are a syed, can you shed some light on why syeds only like to marry in syeds? WHat are your reasons behind this as Islam never encouraged this?