Respect or fear

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Ok, good :) Just eat a little bit even when you're not hungry if you wanna grow ok? :)

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neither ..cos when you start looking for people to respect you .. then that respect has no value .. and nor feared cos ... its jsut plain logic .. you dont wana be a bully / thug / so people fear you ........ therefore .. just live life and your actions will result in what ever is for you .. if ou ve done good for ourself then pple will value you and fall at your feet with respect and esteem but if ouve done ba then you ll be feared .....

but i d like to be respected . and loved ..... than feared and hated .......

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i would like to be the hated ones.........

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Sabriya–i know i should..it’s just the thought of eating..I never feel like it!:smack:

Well I ate cookies While I watched TV today yaknow:D been a long time since i ate those:yummy:

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Lol, whY? Rebellion huh?

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I hope you get well from whatever that you are suffering from:)

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Dude, I dont mind being a bully... it keeps ppl in check :D

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arshad -aww:hugz:

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Ok....I hate you Khadeja...you happy now:)

actually hate was not even an option! we're talking about fear and respect!

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^ but you only bully those if they dont keep in check with you ...... an the reason they arent in check with you is cos theres something wrong in you .. and if there isnt then they wont be needing the keeping in check medicine from you .. cos they d be respecting you .. for what you are and not as a bully .......i dont know if u understood that

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Dhoke baaz izzet dar say badnaam chor honais better to me

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where theres fear theres a hate

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No, try again … this time in English please… simpler version :halo:

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Really:confused: …so why didn’t you just say that you would like to be feared? or is there a rebellious streak inside you:)

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I don't think fear and hate are the same thing.....I mean you may fear your boss but not hate him!

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^Exactly.. We fear Allah, there's no way we could even think of the other word....

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simple version would be .. a person would bully those because they bully you .. and that person bullies back ..‘‘to keep em in check’’ well the person who bullies the other to keep em in check must have donr something for the other person to bully, who bullies back to keep the other in check .. so if the person who keeps the other in check has done nothing wrong then no one would bully .. Automatically .. you d be respected … :smiley:

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Did your BIL get you the tickets yet?

lkk

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suppose one has fear of cockroaches so its obvious that he hates them

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yeah ill have em tomorrow, for the 26th! :hula: