Ratio of Rape

These twisted things happen amongst ourselves as well, I know of many Muslim families where widows whilst Islamically they have the right to remarry are pressured not to cos of society and 'what will people think'. Honestly speaking whilst Muslim men usually do remarry after death or divorce how many of the women do?? The father-in-law marrying the girl thing is pretty sick but then again ppl say that those child marriages some Muslims in villages bk home practice are just as bad, I mean a 9yr-old can be married off to a 40 or 50yr-old so Dad can settle a gambling debt or cos the new husband is rich and paid a large dowry or even the promising of two cousins to be married to each other (even when they are still children) without asking their consent just to maintain 'family ties.' Like princessjojo said we shouldn't be so judgemental when there is so much stuff going on in our own culture that can be viewed as just as bad, if not worse.