r u a player??, do u believe in true love?

Lifestyle Relationships
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*Originally posted by Miss_Mohabbat: *
can a person be "in love" with two people at the same time?

thats a lot of love...
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Nope!

Islam has put a limit of 4 but I say should have been unlimited :D

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I love women!

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*Originally posted by fallenpieta: *
I love women!
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I see you are lesbien. Haram!

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*Originally posted by Fayz: *
I agree. Quite ridiculous.
But somebody had to say it or else women living under the rock would always think it's silly and it never happens.
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Yeah well watch out.You might also be in for a surprise.

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*Originally posted by Sir Galahad: *

I see you are lesbien. Haram!
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fallen is a man, not a woman

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i wish i wish i wish i was a player :(

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true love my foot. you end up going for what's practical and what works.

or you fool around.

Regardless, its always a war between your brain and well...other body organs.

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*Originally posted by PyariCgudia: *
true love my foot. you end up going for what's practical and what works.

or you fool around.

Regardless, its always a war between your brain and well...other body organs.
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There's a constant war going on inside of me between my brain and my heart

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arent some girls the same? not ready for commitment... want to "fool" around or try out different guys until they want to settle down? is it even called being a player? could it just be that they dont want to commit and settle down?

true love.. hmmmz it existed in the olden days and is overly exagerated in movies and crap..

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yes many girls are players. :hehe: its just that guys dont figure that out too easily. they’re too busy thinking with their “heart”.

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^ some guys are naive too.. i know not many.. but there are :)

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girls aren’t “players” they’re sluts :rolleyes:

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theres different words for the separate genders? interesting..

lets not judge them, they prob think we’re desperate losers who only think about marriage :halo:

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i think sluts are fun

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Yeah, you don’t know about double standards?
I wasn’t judging…unforutnatley that’s how girls who “play around” are known as…“sluts”…guys are studs and players but if a girl does even half as much, she’s a skank…it’s not just a desi thing, it’s western as well

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^ hmm i think maybe 15 years ago guys who "slept around" may have been studs.. but these days they arent any better than girls who do the same.. its just in our minds babe

a few years back, i used to hear my friends being called by such names.. well not friends, just girls i grew up with.. i didnt really know them well but it still offended me that somenoe could be so judgemental..

i know these girls personally now, and i think its soo wrong for people to call them such hideous names. Without knowing someone, and only seeing their actions (or hearing from a 3rd party), noone should be calling anyone anything bad... even with guys. Even the "cute lil boys" in our circle are called retarded names by other dense desis...

so point is.. who may seem like a player to u.. may be a real nice person who is insecure about him/herself :)

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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
^ hmm i think maybe 15 years ago guys who "slept around" may have been studs.. but these days they arent any better than girls who do the same.. its just in our minds babe

a few years back, i used to hear my friends being called by such names.. well not friends, just girls i grew up with.. i didnt really know them well but it still offended me that somenoe could be so judgemental..

i know these girls personally now, and i think its soo wrong for people to call them such hideous names. Without knowing someone, and only seeing their actions (or hearing from a 3rd party), noone should be calling anyone anything bad... even with guys. Even the "cute lil boys" in our circle are called retarded names by other dense desis...

so point is.. who may seem like a player to u.. may be a real nice person who is insecure about him/herself :)
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I don't know these double standards still seem to exist to me....
Yeah it's not right to call ppl names, but u can't really change that

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*Originally posted by Sara516: *

I don't know these double standards still seem to exist to me....
Yeah it's not right to call ppl names, but u can't really change that
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maybe its the age thing then... as u grow older, boy/girl differences all become one.. everyone ends up being in the same boat..

and and and... U CAN change everything if you really wanted.

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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *

maybe its the age thing then... as u grow older, boy/girl differences all become one.. everyone ends up being in the same boat..

and and and... U CAN change everything if you really wanted.
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I can change my own mentality, and with hard work, maybe the mentalities of my firends, and raise my sons and daughters to think that way...
but the fact that idiots remain in this world, sorry can't do anything about that :)

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thats great :k:

look at it this way… if u do that, change the mentality of ur friends and bring up ur kids with the right morals and values… there will be more “cool” people in this world and less idiots.. then Inshallah one day, all the “cool” people will eventually outnumber the idiots… aaah somethign to look forward to no? and then u can happily say… “i made a difference”