Re: Question for the Ladies
although the question is addressed to ladies/chick/girls/females/sinf-e-naazuk but I feel that it is our right to comment as well because after all, all this nakhraY baazi, and looking good is done to impress us 
So, my answer is that she should stop after having first child.. 
now see, that is a relative conceptual answer as there is not specific date of shaadi and for the first child for that matter… but if you think about it, I have a very valid reason - logical that is… bataaouN gaa naheeN 