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^ true, true!
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app larkiyaaan jo houwi:sadiyah: …u gals not strong:p …now seriously u don,t talk that frequent with some1…espacially with a women when u are married 
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i'm not saying it's acceptable.
Wouldnt you want to find out what it's all about first before making accusations? Talk to them both.
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yeah but he doesnt understand that he thinks im an diot and dont trust him.all he cares is that she is upset . he never try to understand me from my point of view .how can a girl tolerate that her man is talking to another girl 20 time a day for 30/30 mins :(
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wohi na im g/f and i talk to him only once a day 
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I would talk to him about it. tell him how you feel.
ahh at meeting he use to visit her twice a week when her husband was in pak
yes girls she is married!!!
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ok now i’d kill him 
who is she that he’s so concerned about her?
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um yeah... this isnt sounding normal at all
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Well, you need to tell him in plain words that you do not accept that. He needs to come out clean. Either stop talking to her or stop talking to you. Alternatively you can confront him and ask him how wud he react if a guy needed so much attention from you for he's upset and need to speak with you, see you twice a week??
It's never too late. If he feels so much for another girl, there's definitely smth wrong. You can see for urself not a single soul here approves of it, so it is definitely not a simple innocent thing. They care more for each other to be able to talk that frequently, even if she's married. Put your foot down, talk to him. If he still doesn't accept, tell him, that he can continue to give all his attention to her since you don't need him anymore. It will be tough I know but you won't be going through that pain and insult everyday!
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They're cheating on you!!!
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Explain to him how its making you feel. He also needs 2 explain 2 her that its making you feel uncomfortable perhaps she will back off. If she needs his help so much is there ny problem with you both helping her out. Whatever the situation is you need 2 disscuss it with him.
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this is totally unacceptable.
the excuse always is that "shes feeling down/needs help and i need to help her" thats BS.
its important to note that he didnt tell you he talks this often with her....you found out yourself by seeing his bill. is he trying to hide something from you?
personally I wouldnt tolerate this. its showing signs of trouble.
if that girl is upset and needs help, im sure she can find a friend whos a girl and get her help. she'd be able to understand her more. or she can get help from her husband.
you really need to find out whats going on....cuz otherwise you'll be wasting your time with this guy.
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If its work related thats one thing, otherwise, he has no business talking to other females 10-20 times a day.
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10-20? You sure you're not exaggerating it from like 2 times a day?
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Personally, I wudn’t give up any of my guy friends nor do i feel he would ask me to (i hope :halo: ). Then again I dont have many guy friends that I"m close to or have a fone/hanging out constantly type relationshp wit (coz if i did i know it’d veer towards erm not so-friendlike feelings, on my part or his part 
) so it wudnt be much of an issue.. But calling 10-20 times a day does NOT seem normal, hell I’d be pissed if he wasn’t giving me that attention
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What if he called you 15 times a day..and the other girl 10 times a day, wud u trust him then?
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if SHE was callling him 10 times a day, why shud I not trust hiM? coz it seems like shes the one chasing him.. not vice versa..
on second thot if he called me 15 times a day, i’d get annoyed
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What if, he called her 5 times a day and she called him 5 times a day, and he called you 5 times a day, wud u trust him then?
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Tenu kee takleef ee?